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It is crazy how we all had the same upbringing. Only the names and addresses were different.  Know the playbook; know the narcissist

They dont deserve kids ❤

Yes.  This is what happened to me.  When I entered adulthood I had no self worth and NO self confidence.  I was raised by my mother & grandmother.  My grandmother was the "original" narcissist my mother her narcissist spawn.  Those two fought with one another all of the time.  In childhood I was alone and severely depressed.  They both are now dead.  Best thing that ever happened to me.  So sad to feel this way toward the only parents I ever had, and virtually, the only family I had.

I see that it's toxic. When the kid is angry. You're supposed to have wise conversations and guide them. Narcissists have the wisdom of a 2 year old. People who overcame it do tend to be interesting and have a sense of humor

This is what my mother and father really wanted.  Both are diagnosed narcissists.

It's uncanny how clear and repeatable this pattern is for these narcs!

Being raised by parents like this can cause chronic health issues.  Chronic health issues can prevent you from being able to earn a decent income.  Not being able to earn a decent income can cause you to be financially dependent on your narc parents for life.  This is what has happened to me, and there's no way out.

All throughout my childhood, I was always surprised, again and again, to find out that my demonic father actually used to gossip about me and my little brother. Telling other ppl
- that we are of no use
- we need to be taught things because apparently we couldnt learn anything
- that he is "worried" about our development and our studies etc.
And I was SURPRISED. It's just NOW that I realize why he did all these things.
And it's just NOW that I realize the evilness of all of this.
The demon KNEW that he has responsibilities as a father. He KNEW it.
While abstaining from fulfilling his duties AND additionally messing up our childhood and hindering our growth, he started gossiping about us to protect himself from the factual truth that he was not and could never be a real father.
Just imagine the evilness of this: you commit crimes and harm someone. And then you harm that person more by spreading lies about that person. And endless vicious circle that will lead such devils into hell.
And just the fact that I was always SURPRISED. Imagine a little child being surprised. A little child KNOWS whats normal and whats not normal. And when that small child is victim of something NOT normal that small child is surprised.
More than gripping this evilness mentally and analysing the facts, I need time to just overcome the sheer evilness of both my parents.
And you know what. I never feel like consoling myself. I dont need consoling.
I just need justice. And justice is when the evilness is exposed in front of the world.

Going through mom's papers after she passed, I found things that made me want to cry.  She kept my siblings' cards ,letters, and photos.  She kept my job rejection letters.  No cards or letters.  I did find a handful of my photos.   I still can't cry at her passing

im past all this but revisit videos like this to remember to never invite that witch 🎃🧙 back in my life

This is excellent, and bone-chillingly accurate. Your insights are top tier. Thank you.

It took me 10 years to understand how important it was for me to liberate my soul. And how strategically important it was for my parent to keep me psychologically trapped. Thanks God for the knowledge!!! Thank you, Danish!!! ❤

Narcissistic parents teach their children to be greedy, to be opportunistic and think about themselves before anyone else. The opposite of Jesus teaching.

Every single point you've raised, my garbage parent mother inflicted on me in my childhood. At 19 years of age, I've moved away, (in reality I've runaway) from the hell that was my home, from Poland to Canada, and NEVER returned! I'm in my sixties now. As an act of final revenge, my garbage mother completely stripped me of my inheritance and gave it all away to strangers. She died alone never having to say "I'm sorry". I was waiting for that all my life. Despite of this I've lived happy, productive and adventurous life. I never regret my decision to run.
Thanx, Danish. Cheers.

I have two kids with a narc now she has new supply and keeps me from them 😢, and her mother is a narc I don't want my kids to hate me or grow up like them this is one of the hardest parts of my life 😔

I think up until recently the explanation in this video is why i was an on and off smoker, because in the back of my mind it was the ONLY thing i felt i had 100% say in whether i lit up or not.But the video resonated for sure but as a Gen X i was grateful to have a sense of independence thrust onto me because i could see the perks there was only trouble when i tried to escape got there in the end though now the real work can begin.

Yup yes and yes.. use them to pay their bills too

I am grateful to God for being an super empath,so l saved both of my boys of their cruel nark father ❤🙏

i gotta tell you a story, i was sick ear rupture my mother ;pos that she is, was screaming at me cuz i couldn't hear her, my kid about 3 was there too anyways my mom drank from my glass by mistake and same exact thing happened to her. She went to hospital and i guess she got nurse wratchit ( ya know from the movie "One Flew Over the Cookoos nest" she passed out cuz she couldnt "handle same way she treated me) karma !