Sister,  as soon as you found out who he is you should've excused yourself from their case. You should've referred to another doctor.

Conflict of interest! Red flag! You are a very brave dr for continuing to be his dr and so much for being a woman of GOD.

If this is even real, it's a conflict of interest, lady. As soon as he walked into your office as your new patient, you should've stopped the visit then and there. 🤷‍♀️

MI ntxhais koj ua tau zoo heev thov vaj tswv foom hmoov zoo rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg nyob Kaj siab lug mus tas lub neej ov

Koj muaj hmoo kawg li thiaj dim niag txiv hmong es tau txiv meskas zoo lawm

For those commenters that are bashing this lady out and some claiming to come from professional backgrounds…yals disgusting.  She didn’t know it was him in the beginning.  She did her job based on the referral from higher ups.  She didn’t leak names or personal info.  She kept her distance and still share to receive insight from her husband.  She did her job and did send his file to another doctor to treat.  The point of her story is, never judge a book by its cover.  Those who are very butt hurt, perhaps you’re the one that needs treatment.  💀

Glad you have a happy life! Don't leave your husband for an ex...they're an ex for a reason.

Mi ntxhais aw txob tu siab raug tsev neeg ntaw yog hais tiam tsev neeg ntawv ntshai tus ka mob plaum lis ntawm ce Tom qab 30 hnub cev lawm kis mob tag lawm vim peb Hmoob tsis muaj education xwb es they are scray ancient diseases. I'm so proud of you since you so educated these little things that Hmong people always afraid of is nothing.  Thov Vaj tswv foom hmoov rau koj thiab vaj tswv yeej hlub peb txhua tus.

A good person with a good kind heart does not necessarily have to church in order to be good. It depends on her or his personalities.

That’s very wrong for people to reject someone due to physical concerns. I’m sorry that they did that to you. It is their loss. Continue with your life and your thriving family.

Your continue service to this individual seems like a ethical issue. Please consult with your overseeing doctor and move this case to another provider.

Sounds like Hmong has a lot of psychologists 🤔🤪

The one thing I’ve noticed marrying someone outside of your culture is they don’t have the same set of expectations.

Txhob tu siab os tus sister koj twb tau txoj kev zoo tshaj lawm os

As a daughter myself and with a weak arm. (I was born normal, but got my shoulder socket dislocated in Thailand.).. I grew up always so embarrassed and I would not let any of the guys I dated know. When I met my husband, he was the only one I told and that he needs to let his mom know bc I don't want them saying this and that once we are married. At the end, we got married. I work hard bc I don't want them saying that bc of my weak arm, I can't do any but wait for their son to make money and put food on the table. My husband loves me very much. I'm glad GOD bought him to me. ....
I understand very pain in this story. I'm glad GOD blessed you a loving husband that did not judge you. GOD is great all the time.

Good for you! Someone like that don't regret! He didn't love you enough to fight for you at the start, so it wasn't meant to be. No regrets! Men like this is so annoying. It's funny how they can say they regret this and that and can't move on in life because of you🤣🤣🤣, what a joke!

Tej tug txiv neej no tsis yog hlub koj nws nrhiav tswv yim rhuav koj lub neej xwb kav txij muab koj thiaj tsis yuam kev.

I think you should disqualify yourself  and not be his Doctor.  It's unethical.

Love your story May.

Beautiful stores os niam hluas May

He just so evil and jealous of you having a good life. He just want to ruin you again, he’s not gonna take you n love you.. let him regret for the rest of his life..