Marital status classification has nothing to do with it.  A bad seed is a bad seed no matter what pot it falls in.  But dude, you try to paint yourself in a positive light, but the words in your story that you said to your second wife are really cruel too.  I think you both have some blame and you are just as unkind to her as you say she was unkind to you.

Sounds like your 2nd ex haven't gotten over her husband passing and not ready to move on.  Plus she was expecting her next husband to be like exactly the same as him.  Starting over can mean being flexible and meeting someone half way.

Thov tsa ntis xoo rau zaj no, Kuv los Mloog lawm❤😮

Thanks for sharing your story. I agree with you 💯 percent. Good advice.

It just depends, there are good ones & bad ones in every batch.

Lawv aw…kuv tus twb hais tias poj ntsuag niam siab zoo no dag xwb😂😂😂😂

Kuv yeej pom ib cov poj tshuam yeej coj tus cwj pwm li no kawg vim lawv xav tias lawv tus txiv yog lub ntuj qee lawm xwb es lawv yeej neeg zoo2 hos cov poj nrauj mas tus txiv muab lawv nrauj vim lawv phem xwb no poj nrauj los yeej muaj ib cov zoo kawg li thiab os

Tsis yog poj ntsuam xwb, yawg ntsuam los ib yam os. Tus txiv tsev no hais yog lawm. I'm struggling with mine bc his wife of 12 years passed. And the family is not accepting and welcoming at all for the next one. Tu siab kawg.

Yog kawg li os! Peb yog niam tog txiv nta los peb nyias yeej muaj nyias qhov kev phem yeej yuav tau hloov thiab yoo xwb.. koj tus niam 2 ko nws yeej tseem hlub nws tus txiv dhau ces cov los hloov nws tus qub txiv yuav tsum uv thiab yoog nws xwb.. li no mas yuav nrhiav txiv nyuaj heev lau!

omg no wonder she became a widow, so evil.

Tus txiv tsev no hais yog kawg lawm os

Haha yog hais li koj hais ko ces nej cov txiv neej mus tham cov poj ntsuam nej xav ntsoov txog lawv pob nyiaj xwb ntuj aw.. cov txiv neej nim no mas money li money xwb os yeej tsis muaj kev hlub tseeb tiag!!❤

This black widow already showed her true self right from the start.. not sure why you didn't see it... someone who tells you that they need to see if you are "qualified" first is not worth your time..

Thaub aw...tsis hais leej twg os cas laus tag tseem tsis paub thiab . Luag tej laus twb ib txwm  hais tias khaws luag qub teb ces tau luag qub nroj khaus qub poj ces tau luag qub mob nas has.yog yuav poj nrauj thiab poj ntsuam seb leej twg zoo xum yuav poj nrauj me phoojywg.

I am going to side with your widow wife because your story has been all about you since the beginning.

According to you, you’re the best husband, the best man, the best brother, the best of the best!!!!

You stated all her negatives and your ex wife’s negatives but you cannot accept any responsibility of why your life didn’t work out.

The actual truth is that both of you are mature and have developed stubbornness and set in your own ways. This is why second marriages dont work out either.

Without God, you can’t say who’s right or who’s wrong.

Sorry to say but perhaps the widower was so mean to her husband that she killed him? Glad you found someone who is willing to make changes to herself to better the relationship.  Good luck to you.

Muaj ib cov pój ntsuab siab zoo muaj ib cov pój ntsuam siab tsis zoo ib cov Yawg nrauj pój nrauj siab zoo tab sis muaj ib cov pój nrauj yawg nrauj siab tsis zoo kom nej nco qab ntsoov tias nyias muaj nyias txoj hmoov no nawb mog

Why do you want her to change to fit you? Why can't you change to fit her? If you did, you 2 would get along. You lecture too much. It has nothing to do with what you said. You 2 just have different personalities, different ways of thinking. As the saying goes, "You can't teach old dogs new tricks". You want her to change for you but you yourself can't change for her that's why you 2 don't get along.

Pój Ntsuam siv lub hwj  chim zoo li no ces leej twg los yeej yuav tsis taus.