Anxious Vs Avoidant Debate: Who Actually Has Bigger Trust Issues?
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We’ve spoken to hundreds of people that identify as avoidants or anxious and have our own personal journey as well of course. So in this podcast episode we are debating who has the bigger trust issues, anxious or avoidant people?
Gabriel represents the avoidant perspective and Karolina the anxious. We’ll also be keeping the score during our debate.
⏭️ CHAPTERS
00:00 - Intro
02:08 - 1. Anxious argues: avoidants have an abort button
04:37 - 1. Avoidant argues: anxious people can be controlling
11:42 - 2. Anxious argues: instead of trying, avoidants walk away
20:28 - 2. Avoidant argues: anxious people don't trust they'll be included
26:55 - 3. Anxious argues: avoidants always have doubts
31:49 - 3. Avoidant argues: anxious don't trust that people's intentions are true.
40:14 - 4. Anxious argues: avoidants trust strangers more than their partner
46:36 - 4. Avoidant argues: anxious people insist they're alone with everything
50:23 - Summary
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What you two describe, the shutting down, all that is a typical everyday marriage, or relationship.
Talking like this is what breaks the barriers down. Rather avoidant or not. ❤
I can be pretty controlling, Im not at all anxious, its just me handling what needs to get done correctly. But I am OCPD. I want it done MY way, and perfection or nothing at all lol.
Im very secure as far as attachment.
Anxious Vs Avoidant Debate: Who Actually Has Bigger Trust Issues?
SimplyTogether
2,652 views
WORK WITH US
1-1 Coaching: https://www.simplytogether.co/coaching/
QUIZ
Am I Dating an Avoidant? - https://www.simplytogether.co/is-your...
PROGRAMS
Attach An Avoidant - https://www.simplytogether.co/attach-...
Get Him Back - https://www.simplytogether.co/get-him...
Get Her Back - https://www.simplytogether.co/get-her...
Rebuild Your Relationship - https://simplytogether.teachable.com/...
▶️ WATCH NEXT Karolina (anxious) confronts Gabriel (avoidant) about power games Anxiously Attached Confronts an Avoidant
🎧 AUDIO PODCAST
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2489248/ep...
We’ve spoken to hundreds of people that identify as avoidants or anxious and have our own personal journey as well of course. So in this podcast episode we are debating who has the bigger trust issues, anxious or avoidant people?
Gabriel represents the avoidant perspective and Karolina the anxious. We’ll also be keeping the score during our debate.
⏭️ CHAPTERS
00:00 - Intro
02:08 - 1. Anxious argues: avoidants have an abort button
04:37 - 1. Avoidant argues: anxious people can be controlling
11:42 - 2. Anxious argues: instead of trying, avoidants walk away
20:28 - 2. Avoidant argues: anxious people don't trust they'll be included
26:55 - 3. Anxious argues: avoidants always have doubts
31:49 - 3. Avoidant argues: anxious don't trust that people's intentions are true.
40:14 - 4. Anxious argues: avoidants trust strangers more than their partner
46:36 - 4. Avoidant argues: anxious people insist they're alone with everything
50:23 - Summary