Indian parents visiting for months is a thing. However, no one should assume it's okay with their spouse or ignore their spouse's objections to it

A Mistress whining about money being “stolen” is crazy. She stole her whole husband and it was never HER money.. so how can she claim she deserves it???

She doesn’t have to pay him back. It was clearly a settlement for him walking out in the marriage.

Last story : why do people keep on giving birth to children if they cannot afford them ?

Story 1:  OP’s in-laws are either really old or they’re in their 60s.  Her husband is spewing nonsense on that alone.

Second story: She would NOT be the AH even if the husband asked her to pay him back at any point! He agreed to pay for her school as penance for betraying her. It was never a loan.

the ex said 'its about principle' after getting pregnant with a married man's affair baby. the irony....

Parents in their 60s are not "very old". They could easily live another two decades. This will not be their last visit. The husband is gaslighting OP.

The audacity of this woman to expect her to pay back money when she is the one who broke their family up. She lucky it was tuition and not child support and alimony

they continued “trying for a baby for 10 years” when they literally knew they lived in a garage in their parents house for those 10 years and that one parent was physically incapable of working or making more then 300$ a month…? dude literally not a miracle baby that’s just depressing for the child.

Hey, last story, we're glazing over the very obvious WTF OP? WHY WOULD YOU BRING ANOTHER KID INTO THAT MESS?

OP is suffering from MS, has a 1-2 year old at home. They live with her family. Her husband works minimum wage and she works a small art business making a few hundred at most A MONTH and they get government benefits to afford food and healthcare and can't even afford a cellphone for OP! They can't even afford a car! The husband has to ride a bicycle everywhere! AND they have a dog?! Living in a garage! AND THEY WANT ANOTHER BABY?! Mind you, they're only 32 and 35, not 42 and 45 on their last chance ever. Completely financially inept from the looks of it, since they spend all their spare money on doordash and treats for themselves and seem to have nothing in savings. So not only is her husband financially supporting other people (which feels like cheating atp) but they're also putting OP in danger by going through with a second pregnancy.

Here's what they should be doing:

OP's husband should be looking for a better paying job. They should be putting some money aside for the kid, for school etc. They should quit it with the doordash and the treats and start saving for a house and car and for rainy days and they should NOT be adding to the family. They should adopt the dog out in fact and have one less liability. OP's husband should help with her business if he can't find better work, and then they can maybe bring in some more money that way. Instead of date nights they can have etsy nights where they work on her business together over a nice bottle of cheap wine or whatever. They need to be more financially mindful now that they have a kid. And if they're gonna add a second they absolutely cannot afford to be helping his family out with anything. OP needs to put her foot down. And this 'fancy' lunch thing where they get takeaway also needs to be curbed. Because when you're this poor (and I've been this poor so I know what I'm talking about) all these little luxuries add up.

15:44 ummm hello, the new wife stole her whole husband and life by having that affair with a married man. Who the hell she think she is? 😂

Get them an extended stay! It'll probably be nicer for them, too

The college money should be considered alimony.

Damn...they're just 60!  Good grief - that may be 20 years of him stonewalling and demanding what he wants.

Why should she pay him back when he would owe for childcare, maid service, ect. Those are payable jobs. In fact if you figure all those hours op’s ex and affair partner may actually owe her.

9:53 this is exactly why ppl need to ask for written agreements more often ngl

Last story: You are too disabled to work, he works minumum wage, and you DECIDED to have a kid...while living at home.

The last story, those people are awful with money. Like if you want to save, no eating out, no pool toys, no Xbox account.

2nd story-NTA. AP gets pregnant while OP is going through divorce with husband.