Love this❤️❤️. We have been married for the past 26 years, also in our 50s. We have many unwritten rules, can't  mention all of them. The most important which I believe cause conflict among couples is money. We never discuss each other's money and divide responsibilities, it happened naturally. From the beginning he took over the major responsibilities of paying for our mortgages,  school fees, medical aid etc, mine has always been the supportive role 😁 I buy groceries, give my kids pocket money etc as such I am able to save and invest and that gives hubby comfort to know that we have such a cushion. He knows, despite not having major expenses, I don't waste money,  I am a big saver.

I love this soo much...Ohhh when He is the centre of your ship, He carries it.❤❤❤❤
May God keep & bless your union.

uMdali aze anigcine nize nigugelane boMthimkhulu. I've known you two since my early 20's through FB, I'm 2 years to 40 now and ngisanithanda  namanje. You genuinely like each other, are a great team, worked hard(together) in building the life you have. Live on your own terms and that's why nisendawonye.
You can Johan 14 the cabbage🤣🤣
I didn't know Sis Phindi can be lovely dovey and always thought Buti Mo was the lover boy here, referring to the cute moment towards the end😜
I'm still not married, so I can't add to this topic. Niphile nje❤

❤❤Lovely people

Please I love them.

Love all of these, one of our unwritten rules is we kiss each other every morning before we go our separate ways and when we meet again in the afternoon regardless of who is there or where we meet. The other unspoken rule is that I will always be responsible for what we eat, whether I ask him to get takeaway or I cook or whoever cooks, but I must make sure that kudliwe ekhaya and everyone is satisfied. Lastly Umama akayishayeli imoto uBaba ekhona sihamba ndawonye. Umama cant drive basically if Baba is there 🤣

I’m enjoying these short clips ❤️🙏

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Cabbage 😂😂😂 blended
Love you guys 💕💕💕

I love you guys❤. May God continue to bless your union and your family. Siyabonga ngakho konke🎉.

I must do this with my husband?

Our unwritten rule, we never bought P jamas in our life's. Silala ngendlela sidalwe ngayo since we met many years ago unless I'm on my periods. 😂

I understand why the Bible says we shouldn’t go to bed angry because you’ll struggle to fall asleep 😂😂😂 but we will learn and apply Scripture accordingly.
Thank you for sharing ❤

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