Jan-Uwe Rogge, parenting consultant, bestselling author, and one of the most renowned experts on child rearing in German-speaking countries, explains why fear and aggression are a natural part of child development—and how parents can learn to deal with them in a healthy way. Instead of suppressing anger or downplaying fear, the key is to provide children with support, space, and security.

In this episode, we discuss why children's anger is often misunderstood, how fear is a normal part of development, and how aggression can also be a life-affirming force. Jan-Uwe shares stories from his decades of experience, shows why parenting always involves having the courage to let go, and offers practical advice for parents who want to lovingly guide their children.

An episode for everyone who wants to better understand children—and learn why fear and aggression are not the problem, but rather the key to development.

00:00:00 – Intro
00:03:37 – Why no child grows up without fear – and why that's important
00:10:03 – How to support your child in processing fears
00:20:01 – Providing support in public situations – without overwhelming them
00:23:25 – What children's intuition teaches us for adult life
00:34:53 – Safety through the senses: The role of the sense of smell for children
00:43:51 – When children use fear as a tool of power – and how parents can react appropriately
00:50:52 – Jan-Uwe's most frightening moment – ​​and what gave him support
00:54:11 – Aggression in children – where it comes from and what it means
01:01:04 – Why physical aggression is important for development
01:16:50 – Dealing with aggressive children – tips for Parents
01:24:17 – Sibling rivalry – how parents can deal with it
01:28:42 – A thought to help you support children in crisis situations
01:33:56 – The question from the last guest

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Book "Fears Make Children Strong": https://amzn.to/4nj1SBR *
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