"How DARE you expose my misdeeds and force me to take accountability for my own terrible choices and actions before I had a chance to gaslight and spin a phony narrative where I am an innocent victim!?"

Story 2: the husband's response shows no one ever told him "it's better to stay quiet and let people think you're an idiot than to open your mouth and prove it."

"I'm bored, so here I am..." Sir, you still have a freaking crib to build!

5 months pregnant means hell no to shoveling snow. Pregnant and a freaking night shift nurse? No way . Your husband is just wrong.

Hannah just ripped her mask off like she's in a mission impossible movie. Entitled, homophobic, a serial liar and why not throw in cheater who's not sure on the father of the baby. Here's wishing the brother a speedy divorce.

S2: OP’s husband has her wrapped, even his doctor was making his diagnosis her responsibility. She’s going to be in for an awakening when that baby comes.

The thing that worries me a bit about that second story is her account has been deleted. I hope she is alright.

Story 2:  His wife has "undiagnosed OCD" because at 7:30 she wants him to shovel snow that must be removed by 8:00.  Yeah.  And she has OCD because she has to leave him lists of tasks -- even though a to-do list is a tool that many people with ADD rely on.  But sure, she has OCD.  SMH -- 5 months pregnant and shoveling snow after a night shift.  Can't believe that he has to be parented by a woman 11 years younger than him.

The husband in story 2 saying his wife has OCD (not diagnosed) because "she needs everything tidy RIGHT NOW"... sigh...

The husband in Story 2 sounds so butthurt, he's literally acting like a grumpy child who's just been told off. I feel bad for the wife for being stuck dealing with two babies and not just one.

This dude should be so ashamed of coming in to his wife’s post with that bullshit.  ADHD, depression, anxiety, are not excuses.  Not learning coping mechanisms is not an excuse.  I KNOW

S1: A bigot and a cheater. Quite the double whammy there.

S2: I always love when we get the other side of the story, and the other side makes themself look significantly worse. I get the feeling this marriage will not last.

I have twenty bucks that says we get an update when that baby is born that the crib is still not put together!

I'm 37 and was only diagnosed with ADHD this year on my birthday. I've gone my whole life untreated and unmedicated. I'm terrible at time management, I'm forgetful, and I've turned procrastination into an art form, but I know better than to be a dickhead. I also know that a 5 month pregnant person shouldn't be SHOVELING SNOW, TF??

I love how for Story 2, OP's husband claims she has undiagnosed OCD so he can minimize how awful he is.

I said SIL wanted to ruin the wedding.  That's the only reason to bring an 8 mo old when you have trusted childcare.  I'm not surprised that she was having an affair too. By perfect match she means he'd do anything to placate her and he made good money. But,  someone else gave her butterflies and that was worth having a stable happy life

S2: op's husband made his 5 month pregnant wife shovel snow...wtf?!

Don’t care what the hubby has to say, pregnancy trumps ANY reason he could have with the exception of a weak heart/lungs/dangerous brain bleed.

S2: Deflect, Deny, Dispose... that's what's happening here and going to continue to happen until she leaves. I wouldn't be shocked if he took OP's phone and did this whether she wanted him to or not.

S2: It's almost fascinating to see the dots not connect in his mind. The fact that he attributes Op's insistences for him to do important tasks now as OCD and not the fact that if he doesn't do it right that second he won't be able to use his 'i have more time' excuse will become useless is concerning already. Dude sounds like a child digging in their heels and refusing to admit they f-ed up. I wish Op luck because yikes. If he doesn't fix his crap, co-parenting with him will be a nightmare on its own.