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Why ‘Nice Guys’ Don’t Create Chemistry — The Truth About Leadership and Attraction

Kimberly Hill - Men's Dating & Relationship Coach

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Are you a good man who keeps hearing, “You’re such a nice guy… but there’s no spark”? In this video, dating and relationship coach Kimberly Hill breaks down why emotionally intelligent, respectful men are often overlooked in dating — and how reclaiming your masculine leadership (with compassion) reignites polarity, attraction, and connection. If you’ve ever felt invisible, friend-zoned, or misunderstood by women, this video will help you understand why, and how to change it.

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20 Comments

@markbeeman6894 10 months ago

When a woman, asks your opinion give your opinion immediately and stick to it.

@Newgrist 10 months ago

If you're a nice guy, own it. If the woman doesn't find it attractive and shuns you, it is better to be yourself by yourself than to be someone you're not. Tell the woman to walk!

@Nichen 10 months ago

I am tired of mind games. I am not 14 years old any longer. I am walking away.

@ChocoLocoJames 4 months ago

I'm a nice guy. Take it or leave it.

@SteelyDavey 10 months ago

I'm nice and easy going, it's not that i'm a doormat, I just have a very chilled mindset which has come with age and I don't have much of an ego. If i'm not not bothered by something she does then that's just the way it is and if she want's to leave because i am too nice then good riddance, that's me and i'm not changing or acting.

@KrysOfFate 4 months ago

Its not about being nice. Its about evoking attraction.

@Aceblack21. 10 months ago

Word of advice boys, tell them to stfu from time to time and let them know when they’re being annoying. Most importantly don’t let them get in your way of your purpose.

@philipkollberg 10 months ago

Im myself.
Im humble but no pushover.
The right woman for me hasnt found me yet and thats fine because I enjoy my own company too.

@VladislavBabbitt 10 months ago

A lot of people just settle for a partner out of fear of being alone.

@timmuhlbauer5657 10 months ago

The problem also is that most women don’t even give you the chance to be in your masculine energy. There’s always other people involved nowadays and they wanna scout their options first. I’ve had it multiple times where women would come back to me a few weeks/ months later because at first they questioned my masculinity. I’m naturally a very laid back guy and also more introverted (I do always stand my ground tho and do exactly what I want) but most women mistake this by being soft. These women have had their chance and I’ll never be a second option but it’s frustrating sometimes

@yvesgysel9834 10 months ago (edited)

Try an authentic guy with true inner confidence and boundaries. He's not about playing games and no need for any approval or validation. He's about calm, balanced energy. He's emotionally aware but in control of his emotions. He has standards, integrity values, and morals. So he will ignore fake people, including fake women. For him, it's about authenticity and His independency. He's very good on his own. Only an authentic woman, with the same values he will notice, The rest is noise. For him, it's about a genuine deep connection. So yes, you will go unnoticed for such a guy.

@Milessavestheday 10 months ago

Being a nice guy sucks. At least for me, I've been looked past to many times to count. It's my own fault. I just don't have the kahunas to approach women. When I do finally get the courage, I fail so bad it takes me months to recover. All the videos and things I've learned go right out the window when the heat is on. Not sure why I'm exposing myself here. I guess it's my own therapy. God bless everyone.

@heyalenofficial 4 months ago

Things Im going to remember from this video: ''There is a Squirrel.'' 🐭

@mickygarcia4251 10 months ago

My interests now lie in investments, learning to sail, and building a retirement home. After finally attaining a degree of financial independence, I have come to realize that relationships are foolish and risky.

@MakrinKira 5 months ago (edited)

As a 33 year old virgin, I’d rather be a virgin for the rest of my life and treat others with kindness and nice to people and true to myself than to pretend to be someone I’m not…..

@eduardosalas2640 1 month ago

But seriously. I left cause I was dying in that relationship. I thought she had all the power, made all the decisions, etc etc etc! But I gave her the pants. Cause I didn't want conflict. You're right. I'm single I'm happy. I'm my genuine self. I'm good!

@FTG_Campaigns 1 month ago (edited)

The prime example is the Jim Carey movie Liar Liar where the woman rejects the 'boring' good-looking nice guy for her cheating, lying ex-husband. The movie potrays this as a good ranting decision.

@keppelc 7 days ago

I’m a gentle and caring man who often gets friend zoned by women. I feel like you have nailed it with this video, and it helps clarify what I need to bring more of into connecting with and dating women. Thank you Kimberly 🙏❤️

@haulinoatzzz 4 months ago

This is honestly one of the best and most poignant videos describing one of the biggest problems in modern dating for men and how to address it. Fortunately for me I was forced to finally figure this out on my own about a year ago after a bad heartbreak that was the last straw for me.

Ever since I've found this nuanced Middle Ground of being assertive and setting boundaries, it's actually made dating far easier. I can never go back to my former simpish Behavior because it's guaranteed to fail. I have a lifetime of experience validating this new state of mind, haha.

Absolutely excellent video. Hope much more men find this.