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you can't control your feelings, but you can and should control your ACTIONS

Me personally I can’t respect a man or woman who cheats instead of leave. It’s so so tacky and disrespectful

I'm sorry but licking random donuts in a shop and not purchasing them is very much a childish and bratty thing to do. She deserved all of the scrutiny she got

Previously married person here - SEPARATE AND BE HAPPIER. Theres so much life left to live, do not stay miserable. If you are miserable it is highly likely the other person is being affected by that as well. Its hard, but you owe it to your future selves to separate and find happiness elsewhere. People change, situations change, feelings change, and that is okay

ariana has always struck me as theater kid deep down, in the sense that she’s insanely talented but obnoxious, insufferable, and dramatic in all aspects of life. a malleable (usually /neg) sense of self that aids them in fully embodying whatever character they take on.

because they spent so much of their early lives obsessing over fictional stories and curated romance, they can’t seem to turn that lens off and NOT bring theatrical themes into their real adult lives—unless they’re met with the real life pitfalls and issues, which ariana has never had to really do because she’s rich + famous + gorgeous and isn’t pressured to change by any external circumstances.

she’s just “following her heart” and “living her truth” in her mind, which is all well and good, but girl you’re wrecking through people’s lives on an increasingly horrific level and they’re not just side characters in your story 😒💔

The Ethan and Ariana relationship was the most frustrating ever because her stans were trying to defend that relationship like even if both of them were already divorced and became a couple it doesn’t change the fact a child is still involved I only feel bad for Lily and her children

I think the whole “if you develop feelings for someone else” thing is missing the point a bit. As a married person, have boundaries so you don’t put yourself in that situation. Don’t let yourself get so close to someone that you begging to “have feelings”. Feelings are fleeting. In marriage or any long term partnership, it is about choosing to be together every day. Love is apart of it, but it’s much more than that. The fact that Ethan was able to so quickly end things with his wife after they had a baby just shows me he wasn’t committed to making his family work and didn’t have appropriate boundaries.

19:48 I love how you properly mentioned the career of all her ex boyfriends, but when it came to Ethan Slater - "Ethan Slater - Spongebob" 🤣

First Taylor now Ari? You are the bravest solider 🫡

Ariana and her husband divorcing wouldn’t have been that suspicious cause it was a short marriage but Ethan’s wife was literally like his high school sweet heart and I believe they were together for over 10 years and married for like 4 of those years and on top of that lily had JUST given birth to their new baby… and coincidentally right when he starts shooting wicked and meets Ariana suddenly him and his wife had problems and wanted to divorce and he almost immediately moves on with Ariana.. give me a break.

And maybe they did have problems which eventually led to the divorce but I’m pretty sure that problem started with an A…

Licking a donut for sale that you aren’t buying is absolutely disgusting, and heinous. I’m shock people weren’t more mad about that. Imagine buying a donut and then later seeing is , some psycho licked it .

Many people with kids mention a general rule to not even think of a divorce within the 1st year of your child - not necessarily for sake of the child, but it's just the hardest part of the relationship and things usually settle down when you start getting more sleep and settle into your new roles as parents

my opinion is, if you’re leaving your wife because you have feelings for someone else, you should not be with the other person your feelings are for immediately. you should see a therapist and focus on yourself for a bit and figure out why this happened.
did you not know yourself enough before you decided to start a marriage and family? do you not actually want to be monogamous? did you settle in your previous relationship without having strong enough feelings? does this have nothing to do with romantic feelings and more to do with a desire for attention? a lack of unconditional love in your childhood?
in general, I always think you need to take time to reflect between every relationship. but if you find yourself actively hurting other people and repeatedly chasing new relationships, there is something causing that.

I would be fine with the blame theory if it wasn’t for the fact that Ariana knew the wife of Ethan Slater and literally held her baby and went to dinner with them like she was malicious there

the airheads on twitter coming after you is frying me. they’ll do anything but admit they have a parasocial relationship with an objectively crappy person

btw frankie grande was already a villain in henry danger a couple years ago so they just brought that character back, it wasnt a new totally random character lol

i’ve been a huge ariana fan since 2013, yet i feel like i just can’t move past this one. something about the whole ethan/lily situation leaves such a dirty taste in my mouth. i don’t even care if there was any actual cheating, i still think it’s weird to get with a man who has a 2 month old baby and JUST left his wife. like what do you see in a man like that, you think he wouldn’t do the same to you?
i can’t help but feel distrustful of ariana’s whole celebrity persona now. like is she really the person she portrays herself to be online, in actuality?
and because so much of my appreciation for her came through a feeling of authenticity and honesty, her vulnerability and ability to express that, her recent actions make me feel like those things don’t exist anymore or at least i can’t trust her to be authentic and real, so it’s hard to continue being a fan.

Just one week difference from the last video? SHE'S BACK IN FORCE!!!

i just wanted to say that i love how you articulate things and frame your point of view. it's really well done and your vibes are so pleasntly CHILL no matter what topic you discuss. amazing growth in your channel and youtubing skills too. found you thru your miraculous videos, stayed for your casual style of recaps/video essays