Has anyone experienced narcissists ignoring them so that they get you to "chase" them also as if they have a weird pull or "spell" on them?

“Or your money - what’s left of it” this made me lol cuz my narc did take a lot of my money

You made me laugh with the way you said "they are dumb, idiots" while explaining their suggestibility and gullibility because they think they are the smartest (just like a very young child who thinks we believe in his pretending games, when we pretend we believe and play along with them). How I wish I could hug that little child, give him affection and love, and that he had good enough parenting that he needed but did not have. Well I guess I had needed this little laughter after so much sadness, emotional torture, pain and mess.

For so many years I have been trying to understand the narcissist in my life. The scenario was always the same when he disassociated and became the laughing demon. If I let him get to me and became too emotional is when he would switch. I only once got the blank stare and that was when he was beating me to the floor. He's very violent. His eyes looked as if he was not there but had a small smirk on his face. Recently I was arrested for successfully defending myself against him. Because of his probation status I took the fall for him because I did bloody his nose. I'm hoping to be able to have strength to go no contact with him when I return home.

Have anyone ever experienced with a Narc eating fast & sounding like some sort of animal?

Excellent.  You are not alone in suspecting that dissociation underlies what is currently labeled "personality disorder."

I really love your videos. I'm so glad I found your work. It goes beyond a simple explanation of these behaviors. I've dealt with more than one type of narssasits & sociopaths.

I have been tempted many a time to call in the church for my ex narcissist and I'm not even religious! 😂🙏

Your non-judgemental unbiased examination of the topic is refreshing and is an example of what an academic / scholar should be like. As a historian, I am constantly disappointed at the academic dishonesty and hatred/ bias filled  "experts." Psychologically speaking,  why is academia so full of people who refuse to be objective while screaming about how they are the most objective person in their field? I can not stand it! The only way to find the truth is to lay bias aside and follow the evidence. Thank you for your work!

Brilliant, enjoyed listening to your insight.

This hit home my sadistic ex who gave me a sob story how she was abused so I moved her across the county, after she screwed me over and then begged me to come back she asked me to move in with her so I gave up my apartment. My job for six months was to wake her up in the morning that's why she moved me in. then made me homeless after I brought her to the beach and waking her up for mother because I gave uo my apartment leaving me homeless I then trusted her AGAIN and made homeless again. After I broke it off she constantly called the police over to my house accusing me of hacking her phone lol. The police found I was doing nothing wrong and told me have nothing to do with the person they are evil and finally suggested I file a restraint order. The police said they thought she really believed I was hacking her phone if anyone was in her phone it was the dozens of guys she was talking to on the internet. I was at a gas station and she drove by screaming stalker, yelling outside my door at my apartment complex. the detectives told me she was accusing me of braking in hacking her ring so that there was no evidence and hiding her shoes. Then told everyone I was crawling through the A/C ducts and stole all her stuff. Welcomed them in to search the place. Funny thing one of the police offers when she called them told them I refused to meat with detectives when I had just met them earlier in the day. This shows how these animals triangulate and lie even about stuff like this, like the police were not really going to talk to the detective and see first thing she did was lie. Then sent me messages saying that she was going to accuse me of druggng her if I did not buy her a bunch of stuff when the truth is she really dd break into my house while I was there!  I shared all of this with the police. They told me to file a restraint order which I did. BUT guess what when around telling everyone she had a restraining order against me! Went to court today and she had got an attorney, and postponed it many times. I thought they were going to hear the evidence today but wanted a separate date for a trail and I just did not have it in me anymore to keep going on and on so I dismissed the case I did not have the energy anymore. I was set to prove my innocence after her vicious smear campaign online. It would have been nice to have a document proving who abused who. Narcism is past down her mother cheated with her dads best friends which show the moral compass she was raised under.  In my own apartment I would have to hide while she talked to her mom on the phone because she had bad mouthed me so bad to the person she begged me to help her escape from. I am sure she will tell everyone she won even though I dismissed the case but that's ok as long as she's gone. THE SHIT and lies these creatures come up with is just unbelievable. They will do ANYTHING to appear as a victim. When she told me her husband had a restraint order against her I believed all the stuff she told me how he framed her. I should have walked away. I wasn't allowed to go to my buddy daughters funeral because he did not like her, I wanted to but I had just given up my apartment so I was afraid of being kicked out. Also I was not allowed to cook or clean even though I dishes were a mile high I had to brush my teeth in the bathtub so spots did not get on the mirror she also called my parents who are vile narcissists and I have no contact with she called EVERYONE. My apartment won't resign my lease because she brought them the police reports she made that I was hacking her phone but oh yea forgot to tell them the detective found after confiscating everthing for several day I was doing nothing and felt bad for me.. I brought this vile Suboxone eating trash into my life and look what happened when I did not head all of the warnings even took the dog I loved and was also accused of having sex with.

Thank you for sharing your research on here freely!

It is easier to blame the spirit world for problems than to actually learn about human psyche.

😮 Once again, you nailed it Professor.

Absolutely experienced the possession,,,,omg,,,thank you for making me not feel so shocked at the experience,,,,wow

You are amazing! I love your videos always so informative love your work!

Thank you so much for your videos. I could listen to you all day and feel somewhat better about having removed the narcissist from my life.  Hearing you say they have no self hits hard on my memory of when I first met the narc and went on our first dates always thinking there was something unsettling about this "perfect" man who seemed to fit so well into my life, turns out it was because he was mimicking me. And yes he suffered great deals of anxiety and even panic attacks. I asked him once early on "why do you always say yes to everything I say, Don't you have your own opinions or likes?"... wow that was flipped on me in an instant after the golden period was over.  I feel like the wounds left by him will accompany me forever. The cognitive dissonance of having a "perfect fit" person to then take it all away. I spent the last year of talking to him trying to get him to accept he was a compulsive liar and had severe mental issues, but of course that did nothing but get him to say we both needed help and never actually agree to help.  Any recognition of lying was quickly followed by "you made me behave this way" or "you lie too".  I did for a period of time just started seeing him as a demon trying to get me to take my life. Your explanation of mental illness and demonic possession is so clear. And I find it quite telling looking back that he told me in 2 occasions he was the devil and I must have done something really bad to have met him.

Yes!!!!!! I so agree!!!! This is great!!!

Very informative and unbeatably so true

Good morning Sam, nice seeing you !!