No one controls lust either you entertain lustful ideas, strengthen those neural pathways, and it has you or you're focused on other aspects in a given dynamic. If you're entertaining multiple options while single, you're eroding your value as a long-term committed partner by reinforcing bad habits

the most enlightening point is we are all human and we all get these urges the issue is when you let them control you , remember to always be in control .

Create distance from your triggers & tolerate the urge without acting on it is so profound. I really love your videos…keep going👏🏽✨

“There’s only something wrong with it when I can’t control it” that part!!!!

I know im a guy but stumbled across your video. you are very wise and you look beautiful queen!

I put it into my workouts and productivity !

" Keep Distance from your triggers"

Distracting yourself while having those thoughts is the safest
Thanks
I needed this vd peace and love ✨

You Are a BEAUTIFUL Feminine Woman !!!!

Lust is the energy of the universe. Use it to rise up

1. identify what you're actually craving
2. be in control of emotions instead of emotions being in control of you. dont feed the fantasy. dont keep looking at their instagram. u can manage the connection better if u aint fantasizing too much.
3.create distance from triggers. dont expose urself to the thing that's distracting you. Pour time and energy into YOURSELF. hobbies, etc. CREATE.
4. learn to tolerate urge without acting on it. think of it like seeing a commercial for food. the craving does go away eventually. let it arise, let it flow. it'll make you stronger. you'll realize it's just a feeling.
5.stop confusing chemistry with compatibility. look for true purpose and value of this person in your actual life.
6. redirect the energy. put that intensity somewhere else. put it in your body, art, music, business, friendship, family, etc. do something. challenge your mind. do pushups. call a friend. accountability partner. it helps you discover passion and build trust with yourself (the trust will make your nervous system more regulated. both your body and mind trust you more)
7. choose yourself after the urge passes. choose your higher self; your future, your goals, your morals, your self value, instead of your materialistic worldly self. you don't defeat lust through hating it, just gain control over it and align into it. don't become a servant to your emotions.

feeding the fantasy is the real threat. distancing from triggers/adjacency is fundamental. 4 out of 5 stars, always room for improvement.

I feel like men’s lust is a physical thing they walk around with all day and could basically soothe it w just about any person they’re attracted to, where’s our lust is usually directed at one person and is built around emotion, physicality and the stories we tell ourselves about him. That makes our lust more all consuming bc there’s emotion involved and that itch can’t be scratched by just anyone . But weirdly I kinda like the feeling of unmet lust sometimes, it fuels me and gives me so much energy and creativity (but sometimes it just sux 😂)

Lust is always a problem

But attraction is different,

Sexual attraction is natural, lust is the corruption of attraction

Damnnn she very beautiful, love the short hair cut 👌🏾

I transfer it into my passions ❤

sexual energy is one of the most potent creative outlets when channeled correctly.

Thank you for this as a young man who has struggled with lust since I was 12 I appreciate you you a real 1!

Great points and your soothing voice always drives the message home. It’s also important to give yourself grace if you fall short. We’re only human so if you cave into your lust, forgive yourself!

Incredible video. I loved all points, especially the one that chemistry does not equate to compatibility, this is one of the main reasons I think most persons are in toxic or unfulfilling relationships.

Thanks for this video queen! You’re glowing!! Keep up the good content