【心理学】本当に信頼できる人は「ここ」を見れば分かる｜本性が現れる5つの瞬間
ユウリの優しい心理学
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They seemed very pleasant at first.
They spoke kindly and listened attentively.
Yet, as time passed, being with them became increasingly difficult.
Conversely, someone who initially seemed unfriendly might be the most helpful person when you're in trouble.
Pleasantness and trustworthiness are not the same thing.
True trustworthiness is revealed in moments that are slightly inconvenient for the other person.
This video explains five moments from a psychological perspective where a person's true nature is likely to be revealed:
1. When you succeed
2. When you say "I can't"
3. When that person fails
4. When you disagree
5. As time passes
Trust isn't the ability to instantly see through someone's heart.
It's the ability to observe small actions over time.
Instead of using signs as judgments, try using them as questions to find and cultivate a secure relationship.
*This video provides general information based on psychological research. This is not intended to diagnose the personality or mental state of any specific individual.
[Reference Research]
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
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#HumanRelationships
#TrustworthyPeople
#JudgingPeople
#TrueNature
#SelfUnderstanding
9 Comments
子どもの保育園のママ友に挨拶はして、世間話する人がいて、なぜかよく私をランチに誘ってきたり、そのママ友の仲いい何人かとの集まりにも呼ばれて、子どもの関係もあるから行ってたけど、悪口大会とマウントがあって、最初から直感で（この人とはかなり心の距離を置きながら様子をみよう）と感じた一人でした。
その後、私が担任の先生に子どもの事で色々相談してたら、「ズルい」や「ひいきされてる」と自分ではなく、いつも一緒に集まるママの一人を使って言ってきました。
一人では何にもできないし、仲良く見せかけて、悪い所ばかり探してるんだな〜と、離れました。
そのママ友は、そういう事を常にしてるようでした。
昔からの友達は、大体の性格はわかるけど、ママ友という枠の人達は、子どもがメインで繋がるため、ややこしいです。
ありがとうございました！
【心理学】本当に信頼できる人は「ここ」を見れば分かる｜本性が現れる5つの瞬間
ユウリの優しい心理学
28,793 views
They seemed very pleasant at first.
They spoke kindly and listened attentively.
Yet, as time passed, being with them became increasingly difficult.
Conversely, someone who initially seemed unfriendly might be the most helpful person when you're in trouble.
Pleasantness and trustworthiness are not the same thing.
True trustworthiness is revealed in moments that are slightly inconvenient for the other person.
This video explains five moments from a psychological perspective where a person's true nature is likely to be revealed:
1. When you succeed
2. When you say "I can't"
3. When that person fails
4. When you disagree
5. As time passes
Trust isn't the ability to instantly see through someone's heart.
It's the ability to observe small actions over time.
Instead of using signs as judgments, try using them as questions to find and cultivate a secure relationship.
*This video provides general information based on psychological research. This is not intended to diagnose the personality or mental state of any specific individual.
[Reference Research]
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...
#Psychology
#HumanRelationships
#TrustworthyPeople
#JudgingPeople
#TrueNature
#SelfUnderstanding