If you choose a weird boyfriend, don't be so surprised if he acts weird.

people always find a way to blame women rather than the men who are really in the wrong

This sadly isn’t a new situation as well. Monstra had to make a video at the start of this year asking girls to stop messaging her to ask to block their boyfriends. She told them that if their boyfriends are lusting over her, the girlfriends should dump them because they’re being disrespectful

I love how she is supporting those girls and giving advice like a friend even tho they are hating on her😭🙏

Why are people even attacking her- she did nothing wrong 😭🙏

yk it surprises how some girls just straight up blame her instead of their bfs?? monstra isn't even a problematic person and many ppl hate her for really no good reason at all 😢

“Every night at dinner I’ll be there.”

her response was PERFECT

YOU'RE 16??? Ngl thought you were older than me,  you just give off cool older sister vibes

Ayyy im a male viewer!! I’m 15 and I wouldn’t do this to anyone but I think guys do it to feel empowered and try to make their girlfriends feel insecure to try to “build them up to his standards” 🙄 btw love ur vids so so much!

she's the real girl's girl, supporting her haters even if they blame her for their bad relationships. (omg the wolfchan plushie in the bg😭)

Damn what did Monstra do? 😭🙏 all she did was exist breath air mind her own bussines like what? 💔

that’s wild how she’s being hated on mostly by other girls when all she does is support other girls and gives advice basically being a friend or a big sister and I literally don’t understand why women would hate on other women for a very stupid reason like being jealous because there “bfs likes her” or “follows her” like don’t blame her for you having a thirsty bf? she’s literally not for the male gaze. 😭💔

If hes lusting over another girl it means hes using you for lust aswell and hes not taking the relationship serious, hes not dating you for love, choose your loved one wisely

the only good thing about this situation is that not the influencer is the problem</3 feels like fresh air

A dangerous underlying issue of this phenomenon, imho, is that a lot of men thrive off of making their girlfriend feel insecure, as a way to make themselves feel "righteous" for dating them 😑  
That kind of abusive dynamic can leave someone feeling so unworthy of love, that they start to believe nobody else will ever love them...and it then prevents them from leaving or confront their bf, for fear of losing them.
That is how it becomes easier to attack a seemingly threatening outsider woman, instead of holding your partner accountable for treating you poorly...

It's important that people are awared of such dynamic and knowes how to spot it, bc it can happen at such a young age... Be sure to stay safe out there y'all and surround yourself with people who makes you feel worthy and loved ❤

thankfully i have not spent more than ten minutes on TikTok,,,

Male viewer here- the men who openly lust over her likely do it to get a rise out of their girlfriends for their amusement or to break her down in order to make her more how they prefer- manipulation, of course. But for men who simply follow her with no mention of lust.. I’d imagine they just like her style or something. There’s the unfair thought that a man only follows women he finds attractive, though I doubt that was your point. What do I know, I’m gay. (but I have experienced this type of manipulation before so..???)

they hate her because they ain't her, and they decide to blame an innocent girl who doesn't even know their ugly ahh bfs instead of the guy/ their bf who's making them insecure..

I remember a whileee back, people would always ask for her to block their boyfriends, and she did that but eventually stopped because it wasn't her responsibility 🙏🙏