I guess you've never read Song of Solomon 😂😂😂

Listen Deborah, I'm a subscriber I watch your vlogs but never listened to any of your podcast episodes but I must say........ This was so good 🔥 and I genuinely think the holy spirit led me here. I'm literally going to listen to the rest of the episodes this week ❤

Girlie, this honestly spoke to me and I was just praying for encouragement only two hours ago and this has spoken to the core of my heart, truly. I've had a crush on someone for a bit, about two years. Its difficult carrying this uncertainty and admiration but honestly if we were to think of things objectively, we overcomplicate things sometimes don't we. I'm praying that I don't put this person up on a pedestal and daydream a lifetime with someone. I've been there before and it's painful. Lord I pray that I'll trust You with my story even if it's not what I had in mind, even if it's not who I had in mind.

Thank you, this video is perfect for the season I am in right now with the Lord. Thank you for allowing God to speak through you to all of us to lead us toward Him again❤

I'm single because I have chosen to remain single. I don't want a gf and dating. I want to live by myself and seek to know God better and seek ways to serve in the Kingdom!

Being 32 with no husband or kids suck

You have no idea how much i needed this today. I go a little crazy and hearing you helped me not only realize that im not alone, but gave me the steps to take to take the right path. Thank you

Thank you sooo much ma'am 🥰
God bless you ❤️🙏

I want to ask, is it ok to go out on a date with a guy even when u know you're not ready for a relationship, is it ok to go on that date, just because he asked for it, especially meeting the person for the first time?

Thank you💗

Thanks I really to this as a brother/man. Sometimes God is also working on parts of us and we need to be patient till he's done working on us and when he's done that's when we meet our partner. Also love the bit where you said we should meet someone who we have to catch up to or slow us down. Stay blessed Deborah.

𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗼 𝗺𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗿𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗜 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝘆 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗰𝗿𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗺💥 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗲𝗱 😳😯 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗜 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱  𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗵𝗲 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗢𝗡𝗘 𝗚𝗢𝗗 𝗖𝗛𝗢𝗦𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗠𝗘 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗶𝗿𝗹𝘀  𝘀𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗜 , 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝘄𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗳𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗺𝘆 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝗳 𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗲 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗚𝗼𝗱'𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵. 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗰𝗿𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘁 🙏

I once had a crush on someone and didn't even realise it. We'd been friends for years, shared many of the same likes and dislikes, got each other's jokes, and talked nearly every day. I never considered him as a possible partner, though, because he wasn't a Christian, and was also too much younger than I for my taste.

Then one day he shared that he had found a girlfriend. I was happy for him, but also surprisingly sad inside. I had no idea - or perhaps had just never admitted to myself - how badly I'd really fallen for him. He did nothing wrong because he never knew, at least not as far as I'm aware. And I never said anything. We stayed in contact for long after that, but have since drifted apart. I cherish the time we had, and sometimes deeply miss it, but I know that season of my life is over, and new things and people are coming.

I share all that just to say that sometimes we gals don't know our own hearts, and like to think we're more rational than we really are. Asking God to reveal our hearts is often painful, but very necessary.

I love her honesty. Very open. A very good role model to the young sisters in the faith.

I just want that longing for companionship to be taken away. It's more of a hassle than anything else

THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS! I struggle with romanticizing and it can be hard for me to talk about so I am grateful you are so willing and open to sharing about this!

How about having a crush on Jesus? That is a safe relationship rooted in celibacy.

God bless you for posting this! Singleness is a gift. I have been divorced since 2018 and I am the mother of a beautiful 11 yo son. It gets hard sometimes but God is faithful to us and He loves us! ❤

this Lady is just me

Thank ya I needed to hear this 💗

L