You literally not only have to let them make the first move,  but they need to impress us,  ask us out,  and PAY for the date... since you asked.

They Refused to Believe the Truth 😮Now Silence shall be their Sentence 😭😠👑😡 Salute 💪🫡

Men traditionally making the 1st move is a lie created by women to feed their insatiable hunger for affirmation.  It was a near necessity, young men had far more other concerns (like improving themselves to be a better husband prospect) and matured slower.  When I was young (and earlier) outside 1 night stands it was common for women to make the 1st move, but where possible interest was relayed through a mutual friend, co-worker, or family, afterwards the man assumed the "traditional" role.  Historically there were customs for a woman to show interest such as the dropping of the handkerchief.

They still haven't figured out they don't need an elaborate approach, we aren't like women, we aren't judging their "game," we'll know if the woman is attractive enough within a few seconds, will know if they want to date within a minute of conversation.  If the woman is nervous, men consider it a good sign that she has genuine interest and is invested in the outcome.
This will become a necessity as a feedback loop has been started - men quit approaching as a result of women's bad conduct.  More women will have to approach if they want a relationship.  As more women approach, fewer men will approach, starting a feedback loop.
Women will gain more control, and get reliable feedback of the men they can attract.  Good women will have less competition, women just seeking affirmation will post more melt down videos.
Having an investment at the outset will have women trying harder to make the relationship work rather than looking for any reason to sabotage it, men will have more confidence the woman is really interested and not just seeking to feed her ego, a foodie, etc.

Dating roles have not flipped. Only women are pushing this notion as a coping mechanism. Men really don't care if women approach them or not. Most probably want to be left alone.

The woman that became my wife approached me first. I quit looking for quite a while. Our first date  was just watching movies at her house.

If you didn't hold onto someone from high school or college, it might be too late.

So boring. Yak yak yak

It should go both ways fellas see a girl you like go say something ladies you think he is handsome say something