I suffered the same.thing in the hands of my ex husband to be he never paid my bride price but I had 3 kids for him and he still beat and cheat on me he totally showed me he never loved me he beat and naked me in public with pregnancy,then when I realized myself I started listening to a guy who valued me and loved me then I new I was really messed by my so call ex husband, thank God for today I escaped alive with my kids that is why I supported Sandra and chike,God used chike to rescue our fellow women from the humiliation we women go through in hand of stupid husband but funny enough God rescued us still used their fellow man all thanks to chike and God

This should be Sent to CNN, BBC and the UNited Nations. Neze. you deserve and AWARD.

I support any woman who loves herself and refuse low standards when giving everything

I can never stay with a man who is like my father. My dad is a polygamous man, married more than 4 with so many kids. I have many siblings, but i promised myself that i will never stay where my peace is compromised.  As it is now, i rescued my mother from that marriege, she is staying alone, had to rent a house for her in town and bought her things for her home as we wait to finish building her home. She is at peace, she has now connected to her God, i never knew my mother could gain weight. She is now fat and beautiful ❤. In shorted, i ended their marriage,  and my dad got angry with me. With time, he has accepted to live wt my decision.... Men ayayayaya... Am married now but i can neverrrrrr,  Neze, i love you❤❤❤ Wt love from Malawi 🇲🇼

@nezeville.I am a guy, this is one of the perfect analysis on your platform so far.
When a man commits adultery, society often tells women to endure, stay quiet, and protect the home. But when a woman does the same, suddenly it becomes a public outrage. The double standard is obvious — faithfulness should be expected from both, not demanded from one while excusing the other.

Even after Sandra shared names, receipts, and evidence of Frank’s cheating and irresponsibility, some men still refuse to address his actions. That alone shows that even if Sandra had spoken first, many of you still would not have held Frank accountable. She stayed silent for years, just like society often expects women to do.

Then she reacted by cheating back with Chike. Was that right? No. But let’s not pretend the story started there.

Frank came out first accusing his wife because he understood how society reacts when a woman cheats. He presented himself as innocent, as though he had done nothing to damage the marriage. But now Sandra has come out with even more evidence of his behavior; cheating with prostitutes, random women, married women, emotional neglect, financial irresponsibility, and disrespect. Some of these things even came from his own mouth.

So why is all the blame still being shifted to Chike for “breaking another man’s home,” while Frank’s repeated actions are being minimized? Those actions were already destroying his home and affecting other families too.

Many women and fair-minded men are supporting Sandra and Chike, not because cheating is being celebrated, but because people are finally acknowledging the root cause instead of avoiding it out of ego, “bro code,” or the habit of defending men no matter what.

Deep down, many of you know Frank messed up first. Acknowledging that does not excuse Sandra’s actions, but the truth should be told honestly before judging everyone else.

As long as people keep refusing to hold men accountable, this cycle will continue. Women are no longer willing to silently tolerate disrespect, betrayal, and double standards. Accountability has to go both ways if people truly want healthier relationships.

When one of my brothers wife cried out to me about her husband's infidelity,  I stood with her and by her. Women, lets start doing better.  Stop rhe jealousy and fighting each other. That man that is cheating on his wife with you,  knows that you are a FOOL. You are not better than the wife.  You are being used. 😅😅

I watched my mom suffer . I had an amazing dad but my mom didn’t have a good husband. He’ll constantly beat my mom and pull her hair when she’s just braided. My mom had to run and after that my dad made us hate my mom for leaving. My mom only opened up few months before she died. He infected her with HIV and will constantly cheat and squander all his little earning
In my life now I can never condone a cheating boyfriend. The moment I find out ehhh I’m gonneeee. I won’t suffer what my mom went through

And the fact that the man has been accused of sleeping with several women even hook up yet the men have turned a blind eye to it and shaming the woman who was accused of sleeping with just one person..PATRIARCHY!!!

Today I read my 12 year old daughter's chat with a boy and I laughed so hard. I must say our children's generation is a different one. I enjoyed the confidence and authority she addresses the boy with. She is definitely never gonna take a quarter of the nonsense I have taken from their dad 😊

👍 you got it .change is inevitable. My husband once told me no one will give you your freedom unless you take it by force. I picked on that and last Christmas I decided I deserve a me only holiday. By the time I came back he was less dependent and doing things for himself. If he needs help he asks politely. No more calling me names. He got the memo and I got it too. Atmosphere is calm now and my BP is normal😅

I was married to a koromoto man. Telling me to endure while he was jumping everywhere. I divorced him, no be me like suffer pass.

Our mothers saw hell in the past and it ends with them. This generation of women will never be like our mothers.

Those woman supporting Frank should go and marry him now... mtcheeeew

"Do unto others what you will have others do to you." Period. Thank you my Sister.

My Mum sold different things to raise us, while my Dad took someone else and traveled to Italy to enjoy. I grew up with dt in mind, now am married i won't allow any man do same to me. Bc i hated the gender, i was not in one relationship, i had to do what i am not proud of growing, it took my siblings and God's grace to forgive him when i was aged . It pained me the woman dt suffered for me couldn't live to enjoy it, Dad did but i had to forgive so i can move on and learn to love a man, now married i love my husband but won't take shit o. Its well.

Most mothers don’t even know they’re in toxic marriages and environments so they raised their sons in the images of their husbands and fathers, it’s unfortunate 😢😢😢

My husband told my 3 teen daughters not to behave in a certain way so that it will not affect them in marriage.  They all laughed  at what he said and asked him why he just assumed they want to be married. HE WAS SHOCKED!

👏👏👏. Neze. I have been watching your channels and became a subscriber for over four years from Nigeria and to Canada. I only give 👍 to your videos, I never dropped any comment because I’m not a social media person. But after watching this video, I have to check out how to drop a comment on the tv and it was the tv that directed me to my phone to drop my comment.
This video is actually the best as you mentioned at the beginning of it.
Just to let you know, your videos are not only educative or just entertaining, but you are reshaping the world through your posts.

I have always said this  , One day women will rebel in a very shocking  and unexpected way , I honestly think this is just the beginning. Hmmm

Neze thank you. What is happening now is that while married men are busy with side chicks, side guys are busy with their wives.