Nach der Scheidung war ich verzweifelt | Neue Perspektive brachte die Wende
ERF Mensch Gott
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He was a husband, a father of five, and professionally successful. Outwardly, Alexander functioned as if nothing was wrong with him—even when inside, everything was falling apart.
After 22 years of marriage, Alexander suddenly lost his wife, his family, his home, and all support. He sat in a small apartment with six boxes and realized: he was alone. He worked around the clock, suppressed his feelings, and grew increasingly angry—at his wife, at other people, and finally at himself. One day, he called almost 20 people to talk, but couldn't reach anyone. In despair, he went into the forest and talked to the trees. As he crossed a bridge on his way back, he considered jumping—but the thought of his children stopped him.
In this video, Alexander talks about:
– Divorce & Loss: What it feels like to suddenly lose everything after 22 years of marriage – family, home, and his own sense of security
– Loneliness & Emotional Exhaustion: Why he's isolated in a small apartment, unable to cope with everyday life, yet still hides his feelings from everyone
– Functioning vs. Feeling: How he throws himself into work, working 24/7, while simultaneously breaking down inside
– Anger, Hatred & Self-Hatred: How the search for someone to blame becomes a destructive burden and why he ultimately sees himself as both perpetrator and victim
– Loss & Turning Point: What happens on the bridge when Alexander wants to jump – and why his children give him a reason to go on living
– Forgiveness Instead of Self-Destruction: How confronting his own guilt changes his view of himself and others
– New Beginnings & Identity: How a man full of anger becomes a grateful person who spares his children Asking for forgiveness and rebuilding relationships
🎙 An honest conversation about divorce, loneliness, and the path out of anger and self-hatred.
⏱️ CHAPTER OVERVIEW
00:00 Intro
00:45 Introduction
01:03 Losing everything in my early 40s
06:40 How a marriage slowly fell apart
18:15 "I hated myself"
20:31 On the railing, ready to jump
26:24 The right question at the right time
33:01 The morning everything changed
39:20 Is God's grace enough for every mistake?
42:18 Outro
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Was mich erschüttert hat, dass bei all den vielen Gesprächen vorher mit Menschen aus der Gemeinde kein Einziger dich darauf hingewiesen hat, dass du unter der Fuchtel von dämonischen Einflüssen warst und die falschen Gedanken geglaubt hast.... Und auch, wie selbstverständlich man sich immer gut dastehen lassen möchte, ohne eigene Fehler einzugestehen... ja, so arbeitet der Feind, und die Opferrolle ist so bequem. Ich kenne das auch. Wie schön, dass der Herr dich daraus erweckt hat und dir Seine Liebe gezeigt hat!!! Gott ist so wunderbar!!!
ch habe auch mit Bäumen geredet nach der Scheidung. Ich habe dann darüber geschrieben. Zum Glauben kam ich später, als ich anfing für meine alten Eltern zu beten.
Nach der Scheidung war ich verzweifelt | Neue Perspektive brachte die Wende
ERF Mensch Gott
46,733 views
He was a husband, a father of five, and professionally successful. Outwardly, Alexander functioned as if nothing was wrong with him—even when inside, everything was falling apart.
After 22 years of marriage, Alexander suddenly lost his wife, his family, his home, and all support. He sat in a small apartment with six boxes and realized: he was alone. He worked around the clock, suppressed his feelings, and grew increasingly angry—at his wife, at other people, and finally at himself. One day, he called almost 20 people to talk, but couldn't reach anyone. In despair, he went into the forest and talked to the trees. As he crossed a bridge on his way back, he considered jumping—but the thought of his children stopped him.
In this video, Alexander talks about:
– Divorce & Loss: What it feels like to suddenly lose everything after 22 years of marriage – family, home, and his own sense of security
– Loneliness & Emotional Exhaustion: Why he's isolated in a small apartment, unable to cope with everyday life, yet still hides his feelings from everyone
– Functioning vs. Feeling: How he throws himself into work, working 24/7, while simultaneously breaking down inside
– Anger, Hatred & Self-Hatred: How the search for someone to blame becomes a destructive burden and why he ultimately sees himself as both perpetrator and victim
– Loss & Turning Point: What happens on the bridge when Alexander wants to jump – and why his children give him a reason to go on living
– Forgiveness Instead of Self-Destruction: How confronting his own guilt changes his view of himself and others
– New Beginnings & Identity: How a man full of anger becomes a grateful person who spares his children Asking for forgiveness and rebuilding relationships
🎙 An honest conversation about divorce, loneliness, and the path out of anger and self-hatred.
⏱️ CHAPTER OVERVIEW
00:00 Intro
00:45 Introduction
01:03 Losing everything in my early 40s
06:40 How a marriage slowly fell apart
18:15 "I hated myself"
20:31 On the railing, ready to jump
26:24 The right question at the right time
33:01 The morning everything changed
39:20 Is God's grace enough for every mistake?
42:18 Outro
With your like 👍 comment 💬 subscription 🔔 you support our channel – thank you
This video was made possible by donations. We need your support 🤝 https://www.erf.de/menschgottspende
More ERF Mensch Gott 🩵 https://fcld.ly/mg_linktree
______________________________________
⚠️ Disclaimer: This program is a production of ERF Medien e.V.
Please note that the statements of interviewees and other guests reflect their own views and not the opinion of the editorial team. ERF does not endorse the statements of interviewees and guests. Contradictions in the statements of interviewees and studio guests are generally acceptable within the framework of freedom of expression.
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TXNXECJUSPXEGW7C
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