"there's no room for mistakes when you're running conduit or wiring up an office building" Said like someone who's never done either of those things. Never once have either of those things occurred without mistakes. But someone playing at being a professional would think it sounds cool.
As soon as they talk about an ex, he should have shut that down. He set no boundaries. he should have respected himself more before finding the messages. Derek is a piece of crap, as well. No drama, should have kicked her out right then.
OP sounds like my boyfriend. He had his life in order when I met him. I was a Lab Technician/ phlebotomist I was his favorite Phlebotomist because he had deep veins. Just solid. I was a widow finished raising my kids. Just two solid people. No BS. Just what we both needed. I never found it necessary to be digging in his life or wallet. But damn he had this entitled Ex. Thought she owned him. Like his name was tattooed on her ass and vice versa. Always came around harassed me at my job. Why do guys like this always get crazy exes?
the minute they start talking about an ex boyfriend often while in a realationship with you leave immedately it never ends well. this guy is too slow anyone with a brain can figure out that she was cheating but no he has to be too nice.
If yourbored, your boring. If a person craves more excitement then their partner does, its upmto that person to bring the excitement they crave into the relationship. Chances are the laid back partner will appreciate it. But dont look to someone else to make your life excit8ng, thst is your job.
He met and married a new woman in less than a year after he broke up with vanessa- oh I mean britt because you're not supposed to use their real names. Glad I remembered not to dox her by revealing her name at the start and not removing it.
But yeah the good ending is he got married to a stranger at light speed.
She Demanded: "Apologize Right Now To My Ex Or I'm Walking Out That Door." I Opened The Door For Her