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He's so right.  I used to be that girl at the hip with boyfriend.  After 3 years,  he took me for granted.  I wish I would have talked more to other people and other guys.  Even if it's just friends, flirting I know is different.  Yes, conversationalist.  Have your own interests and hobbies to fall back on if he should break up with you for whatever reason.  Build yourself up, not him.  Especially around the holidays.

So what I am getting from this is put yourself FIRST

Teaching women to play unhealthy games with unhealthy men.
If a man dosent text you for two weeks, don't give him the satisfaction of being able to return into your life.

#1. Conversation;
While mingling...
let HIM come (back) to you
Let him SEEK you, rejoin YOU!

Story time, im a waitress at a bar. Most of my regulars are men. Last year on my birthday, my man said he was going to be busy in the evening but we'd do something over the weekend. So i said ok. Throughout the day my regulars offered me drinks for after work. So i told my man, hey if you have a few mins at this time, id like you to join in on some shots. He said ok, but i have to leave at a certain time. I said ok. He arrives to my work for a drink and sees a SEA of dudes buying me drinks for my birthday. So we have those drinks and we sit outside, he says he has to leave in an hour for a meeting. I said ok. The time arrives, he walks me to my car and we both leave. By the time i get home, my man has texted me that he canceled his meeting and he's on his way.....and he put me to SLEEP. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He's spilling all the secrets.  I've experienced these same situations, and men get jealous 😂. This is hilarious 😂

“I ACTUALLY DONT EVEN REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE” LMAOOOOO YOOOOOOOOOOOOIO this is everything.

I went on a date with this guy i was seeing and we got little drunk and then I flirted with another men at the place he got mad but guess what he became obsessed and even wanted to marry me????!!!! I literally ignored him for a while and flirted with 3 other guys in front of him 😂😂😂 well it worked

Just make sure your man is not a narcissist before applying these techniques!

I agree with EVERYTHING you said Tomisin . Naturally I do most of these already by default and it works like magic . Men often want to feel like they are competing for you or that you are high in demand to see your full value .  You need to induce a touch of jealousy .    Some people may think these are games etc but this is just the way it has be in order to gain a full positive range and effort strive from most modern guys .
A lot of women think this is extreme or exaggerative but a touch of this especially in modern day relationships is VERY  they need to see and feel ON EDGE for you to have the upper hand . IT WORKS LADIES !!! MEN WILL PULL UP THERE SOCKS FAST!!!!! And you get the BEST of them .When a man is not worried about loosing you he will also not be concerned about putting in effort to keep you . THERE MUST ALWAYS BE THAT THREAT !!!! LISTEN LADIES!!!

Tomisin is just out here saving lives 😅

Dude, I love you! Those startegies are freaking amazing. 😆👏🏼 You gotta be a project manager of some sort. Uff.

Not a pack of cigarettes 😂

I'm glad I  don't have social media

So bottom line throw the anxiety on him.
It still sounds like an american teen movie 😊

I wanted to point out something, most women get attached after sleeping with the guy otherwise they dont feel sad when they barely know each other, this includes dates! Sometimes i don't have a phone (i had to look up what dm meant 😄 ) my exes know me too well. Ill bump into whoever is meant to be there.  The feminine is Not in a rush, until then..❤

I really like this profound lecture. Its awsome but truth is, of someone first respect and value themselves and they respect and value you and your time, no one has to do anything to make them fear loosing you.

We always knew this but you explained it perfectly

Your method is tried and true! TY

This technique also exposes whether your man is controlling