dudes wife got cancer and his first thought was he couldn't get her pregnant

Why is it that people are so afraid of being rude to their friends but not afraid of being rude to their spouse?

2:31 this story is sickening. He’s blaming his wife for getting cancer, hes mad at her for not having kids when HE thought she should. She’s not a fucking incubator, she wasn’t put on this planet just to reproduce for him. he’s taking HER diagnosis out on her. He was so quick to get ready to throw her away when she needed him the most. It’s extremely sickening how selfish this husband is. When I was diagnosed with MS early this year, and told having children “just isn’t a good idea” because it can progress my disease after birth, my boyfriend didn’t run, he stayed supportive, and told me our lives are just gonna look a little different now. I couldn’t imagine getting a life changing diagnosis and at the same time, my partner being mad at me and making my diagnosis about them. This poor woman.

I wouldn't even leave my dog in a car for 30 minutes, let alone my kid. And my kid is 26 now.

#5 saying "we are a healthy family" after your wife left your daughter in the car for 30 minutes is a red flag. An event like that should be met with shock, shame and disgust instead of getting defensive. He also isn't worried about his daughter, or angry at his wife for negligence. The only thing he cares about is not getting into trouble with CPS.

I'm worried about their children, if this is the response of the parents after a major f-up.

If OP’s wife in story#1 was my daughter. He would be back at the hospital. In the emergency department.

The parents are the sort that think criticizing their child creates diamonds. Pressure is good. They’ll get enough of that from the world. Parents should be comforting and secure. Support is in short supply from anywhere else.
They better save for therapy.

33:05 - this doesn't sound like autism, this sound like a grown ass adult bullying a literal teenager (19 is still nineteen.). Even if he IS autistic there's no excuse, and asking for hugs and stuff?

Man..... my creep alarm is going off.

The parents in the 2nd story seem horrible tbh. I'm an actress. I've been in many shows & will be auditioning for a production of West Side Story in October. Even though I've never experienced stage fright, despite having really bad social anxiety, I do know that it's a very real thing and I can't imagine how scary it must've been for a 13 year old to perform in front of a bunch of strangers for the first time. She did her best in a very stressful situation, and her parents should've supported her. I hope this doesn't turn her away from performing & singing.

Last Story: Not only is there a danger of kidnapping, but in the US we've been slammed by heat waves all summer. If the AC is not on, she could quickly become dehydrated or hyperthermic. But let's say they left the AC on. Okay, kids like to reach for stuff and push buttons and pull things. What if she managed to disengage the parking brake or accidentally turned the AC off or something? There's a reason why finding children and pets in cars is a cause for alerting the authorities.

Stoey 3- it sounds ridiculous, but when you're pregnant & get a craving for something, it can become pretty much the only thing you can think about until you get it. & yes, it can make you incredibly emotional & we KNOW how ridiculous it seems.

One night, while pregnant with my first, I got an intense craving for rainbow sherbet (specifically the lime part) & asked my husband to grab some while he was at the store. He came home with raspberry & I was so upset that I locked myself in the bathroom & sobbed. I didn't want him to see how upset I was & make him feel bad. I was also mortified by how emotional I was over freaking sherbet lol.

The husband is a massive jerk & his friends are even worse. I really hope they don't have wives or children because they sound like they'd be awful partners & parents.

Yoga guy is being willfully obtuse.

He doesn’t understand why his wife might think it’s cute that  her husband thinks she looks cute / sexy / whatever, but that a woman who is not his wife might not be comfortable with those interactions. It’s not rocket science my dude.

Ooh, that first OP made me angry. Bro your wife isn’t an incubator. She held your hand asked you to stay for emotional support and he chose to make it worse by walking out on this poor woman and making it about himself that his wife has cancer. What a POS. Love his MIL. What a great support person.

For the 3rd story, I feel like OP is the one saying that his wife is acting like a spoiled child but claiming his friends said it because he knows he's in the wrong

Imagine your first thought after hearing your wife has cancer is 'so you cant carry my baby then.'

Get in the bin. Just get in the bin. She deserves so so much more. Babies shouldn't be the be all and end all. For better or worse and all that. I hope she recovers and finds someone who treats her and her life with the respect and love it deserve

Pregnancy cravings are no joke. That's completely unacceptable.

As for the parent with the kid in the car. There is a 3rd option: Allow your child to have their fit in the car, but stay with them running the AC. Don't give them attention, and when they are done, take them in the Costco anyway. Then they learn that fits don't get them what they want. My children hardly ever threw fits because they learned that they had better luck asking me politely for what they wanted. They were free to throw as many fits as they wanted, but it never granted them their way. I did not play that game, but I also would never leave a child or animal alone in a hot car. Actions have consequences, and I hope they learn a big lesson from this. I hope the child is okay and doesn't have to go through this kind of neglect ever again.

The OP who gave away his wife’s food. HE is the spoilt child, he is the one who was RUDE.

The girl who steals food, is going to cringe so much when she grows up.

"I eated everybody's food and they were very mad about it. Am I the asshole?"

Of course not! If you where my roommate I'd just eat all your food in return, since that's morally gray.

The OP in that first story has already ruined my night. I'll be back later. What a heartless ass.