Allie is the color of the wall and becca is the color of the couch

reformed hey mama provides kind considered advice <3

ali is pouuring wisdom the whole episode

I admire how Alli approaches all the questions. I like her perspective and you two together are very funny.

becca you looking directly at yourself the entire pod kills me 😭

I love how Alli is a girls girl- and is friends with both gals. And didn’t pick sides after relationships ended.

I like that your podcast comes out the day after you film it. I feel like everyone records a month ahead and this makes it more real.

She ate with that monologue about ice. Period.

Becca, Al is 100% correct on when you find your person they will match your energy. My wife and I were 1500 miles apart, different cultures, raised completely differently. But we clicked from day one. And there’s NO one else on earth like her and that’s what’s special about her to me. It’s a cliche but we finish each others sentences, we have the same style of joking manner, music styles. I was a college athlete masc & she was a femme who has never done sports. Our general beliefs matched though & we cared greatly about family, but not so much to sacrifice ourselves for family. It wasn’t always 100% easy, we did have to work through some things like past traumas but the point is we did it TOGETHER. And always together. Everything we face we face it together. I didn’t ever know what it meant when people use to say “you’ll know when you meet the one” and we separated for 6 months due to closeting but came back together because I couldn’t imagine my life without her. Prior to her I had commitment issues just not infidelity but scared of long term commitment. When we separated though, it took me like a month to realize I would do whatever to keep her in my life forever including marrying her. It was worth losing everyone in my life for her & she felt the same about me. We made it happen & now we’ve been together 9ish years & married for 3 because we were waiting for her to graduate college. Also a big one (for later on) we don’t ever joke about divorce or mention it. As for going to bed angry, it’s better instead to talk things over when you’re both level headed and peaceful rather than forcing a happy convo before bed. And my wife too always goes through my phone, I don’t care to go through hers but she’s not going through mine to see if I’m cheating she’s just curious haha. Nothing of mine is off limits to her.

This was such a fun episode!!! You could tell by the giant ass smile on Becca's face that she was so happy, and Alli was so hilarious throughout to whole thing

Alli is really funny & wise. 😂

This is the type of podcast I have been yearningggg for an elite recommendation page pull

Becca’s masc makeover please 🙏

Allie has some great advice for any relationship!!! Your person will think your quirks are fun!

Ngl I knew you’d realize your love for girlie girls 🤍 love this for u

Alli has such great answers for everything, loved this pod 💖

One of the coolest, happiest and most empowering episodes <3 thank you so much

I didn't know how much I needed this episode, it's okay to be flawed and keep growing!!!

This has been probably my favorite episode of your pod so far. It was so real and honest…and also hilarious😅

Right on Allie!  Thanks Becca for another fun discussion.