Things You Don't Owe Your Narcissistic Parents (No Matter What They Told You)
Jerry Wise
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🕊️ Your parents handed you a debt before you were old enough to question it.
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Gratitude for being raised. Explaining every boundary. Showing up for every holiday. You have carried these obligations so long they feel like a debt you owe.
Your narcissistic family turned the basics of parenting into a bill, and made you the one still paying it. In this video, I show you how you were programmed to keep complying just because they raised you, and how you can start setting some of it down.
✅ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
🔹 Why you don't owe them gratitude for what every parent is supposed to do
🔹 Why the forgiveness you performed was really compliance
🔹 Why a boundary doesn't need a good enough reason
🔹 Why you don't owe them your holidays or the caretaker role
🔹 Why you don't owe them a relationship that costs you yourself
Through self-differentiation, you can release the false self your family trained you to be and uncover the person who has been in there the whole time.
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About Jerry Wise: I'm Jerry Wise, a family systems coach with over 45 years of experience helping individuals break free from narcissistic family dynamics. My approach to self-differentiation empowers you to let go of the guilt, shame, and emotional entanglements that have held you back. If you're ready to heal, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
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⌚ CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
00:38 1. Gratitude for Raising You
01:57 2. Forgiveness on Their Timeline
02:44 3. An Explanation for Every Boundary
03:29 4. Your Holidays
04:43 5. The Caretaker Role
06:06 6. Your Silence About What Happened
07:37 7. Access to Your Children
08:54 8. Credit for What You Built
09:33 9. A Relationship That Costs You Yourself
10:34 Where to Start
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However I have peace
It still bothers me that I had to step away, my health was suffering! High BP, Gut problems…. Now after a year and a half I am enjoying myself
My grandchildren call me and want to be with me ❤ Life IS GOOD ❤
Things You Don't Owe Your Narcissistic Parents (No Matter What They Told You)
Jerry Wise
113,451 views
🕊️ Your parents handed you a debt before you were old enough to question it.
👉 Join the Road to Self Program to put down the debt that was never yours: https://bit.ly/RoadToSelf
-----------------------
Gratitude for being raised. Explaining every boundary. Showing up for every holiday. You have carried these obligations so long they feel like a debt you owe.
Your narcissistic family turned the basics of parenting into a bill, and made you the one still paying it. In this video, I show you how you were programmed to keep complying just because they raised you, and how you can start setting some of it down.
✅ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
🔹 Why you don't owe them gratitude for what every parent is supposed to do
🔹 Why the forgiveness you performed was really compliance
🔹 Why a boundary doesn't need a good enough reason
🔹 Why you don't owe them your holidays or the caretaker role
🔹 Why you don't owe them a relationship that costs you yourself
Through self-differentiation, you can release the false self your family trained you to be and uncover the person who has been in there the whole time.
-----------------------
🆘 Here's How I Can Help You Heal:
🆓 FREE TRAINING: Build the Real Self You Were Never Allowed to Have
👉 https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webina...
🕊️ THE ROAD TO SELF PROGRAM: Join 10,000+ People Who Have Transformed Their Lives
👉 https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsyst...
📞 PERSONALIZED 1-ON-1 COACHING: Work Directly With Me
👉 https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsyst...
-----------------------
🌐 STAY CONNECTED ON SOCIALS
➡ Instagram: jerrytwise
➡ Facebook: jerrytwise
➡ TikTok: jerrytwise
➡ Twitter: jerrytwise
➡ LinkedIn: jerrytwise
About Jerry Wise: I'm Jerry Wise, a family systems coach with over 45 years of experience helping individuals break free from narcissistic family dynamics. My approach to self-differentiation empowers you to let go of the guilt, shame, and emotional entanglements that have held you back. If you're ready to heal, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
-----------------------
⌚ CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
00:38 1. Gratitude for Raising You
01:57 2. Forgiveness on Their Timeline
02:44 3. An Explanation for Every Boundary
03:29 4. Your Holidays
04:43 5. The Caretaker Role
06:06 6. Your Silence About What Happened
07:37 7. Access to Your Children
08:54 8. Credit for What You Built
09:33 9. A Relationship That Costs You Yourself
10:34 Where to Start
-----------------------
#narcissisticparents #selfdifferentiation #boundaries
🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell icon for new content every day on healing from narcissistic families, self-differentiation, and becoming your true self.
DISCLAIMER: This video is not a substitute for professional counseling. Always consult a licensed professional for personalized support.
✅Join The Road Self Program to put down the job that was never yours: https://bit.ly/RoadToSelf
Check out the FREE training at: https://bit.ly/JerryWiseFree