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Attraction Mixed Signals

Liz Rose

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They act attracted to you, but they never choose you. In this video I break down the mixed signals most people misread, attraction without intention. You'll learn to spot:
false availability
ego-driven attention
signals that show interest but not commitment
Once you can read the signals, you stop investing in the wrong people and start moving with precision.

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20 Comments

@jasonharris644 8 months ago

Yep.. experienced this recently with 2 different women.. I like the wise rule of thumb that if you are confused by it then let it go and move on.. 🎯

@Dr.Fox_90 8 months ago

The only cure is to move on. As Marcus Aurelius has said "You have control over your mind - not outside events. Learn this and you'll find strength."

@Steve24527 8 months ago

Just when you think you've finally sussed attraction out you get a massive curve ball like this 🙄

@greghart6310 3 months ago

So basically there are a LOT of really messed up, confused people out there. The damage they do whilst faffing around, using you to bolster their inadequacies is deep and devastating. Guys - if a girl seems 'off' in even the slightest way - RUN!

@n.s.7634 8 months ago

Yeah, I went through this. Fell hard. But, when she tried to come back, I gave her the cold shoulder. Walked away. Never again.

@carriengugi3405 8 months ago

Whether they are intentionally manipulating or not intentionally manipulating, it still doesn’t negate the impact their behaviors have. If someone isn’t looking for anything serious or not sure what they want, or are only out for an ego boost or to be validated, they need to be clear about that from the start of any connection. A simple “I’m just looking for friendship right now, nothing serious” goes a long ways. Just like the old saying goes “hurt people, hurt people” so too is it true that confusing people, confuse people.

A foolish person is unstable in all their ways.

@KiwiBee21 8 months ago

If you know you know. Detach and move on. You chase future potential rather than seeing whats right in front of your eyeballs. Grieve and move on

@meldonellis1051 8 months ago

Really appreciated this masterclass on subtly confusing attraction dynamics. I recently experienced a connection where almost every layer of attraction was present—except situational availability. Your framework helped me understand why it felt real yet couldn’t progress. Clear, compassionate, and very grounding. This was especially helpful the second time around, after I had already let the connection go and it unexpectedly resurfaced. Thank you.

@rjw_irl 8 months ago

You only really need to understand one word: Congruence. If there is no congruence, then walk away and find someone mature enough personally to have congruence.

@Aprevan 2 months ago

This is brilliant, I get confused all the damn time by mistaking these attractions for actual interest... Learning about limerance and secure attachment rearranged my world in a much needed way.

@rahulnandagopal9216 3 months ago

Man that entire section with rediness hit me like a truck, u described my entire experience to the dot. Her unpredictability triggered strong limerence from my side, took me 2 years to wean off of it.

@Landofsmiles999 8 months ago

Well Rose, you nailed it all over the place. 💯% spot on with it all. I think we see it, but we dream around it for too long.

@timothydolan-u3p 8 months ago

WOW. Thats a lot to take in. Good information. I still just go on my gut reaction. Its usually right.

@dashiellv 8 months ago (edited)

So, for decades, when I assumed women hate me, I was right? This is impossible to navigate. I don't want to be human anymore.

@richoneplanet7561 8 months ago (edited)

Attraction does not lead to action. Well said. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 thank you. That concept needs to be addressed and evaluated by more than just me in my head. Appreciate the insight and information.

@robalex56 8 months ago

Thank you, Liz. I've been following your presentations for several months now and I think this is what I have needed. It explains my struggle to understand an attraction which is admittedly mutual while enigmatic.

@Njpro 8 months ago

This is why people turn cold. Repeatedly being used by others, it's a sad reality of life

@ErichRed721 8 months ago

If they sit in my lap...
I know!

@heytheredee 8 months ago

This helped clear up a lot for me, esp as I’m dealing with getting over my limerence loops. Thanks so much! ❤

@bigdanny2328 8 months ago

The below has happened to me 3 times in the gym till now with 3 different women.

Young women (around my age) look at me and smile, flock around me and remove their headphones, and the moment I approach them and say 'Hi', act like they are too cool and walk off and ghost/ignore me after that.