POV: It's 3AM and you're an overthinker

I’m here because I’m delusional

Shirtless men on dating apps are a turn OFF to most of us.

"A man will do astonishing things for a woman he is ardent about."

A good movie to watch is “He’s Just Not That Into You.” Great advice.

Here at 3am because my coworker is messing with my mind. ❤

My husband and I met at the office. I was a junior computer programmer and had to share an office with another lady and a row of filing cabinets. He was a senior system analyst and had his own office. He used to pretend to come to my office to look for something in the filing cabinets so he could talk to me. We ended up being assigned to the same project and found out we were so compatible. We started dating 2 months after that. He proposed 3 months after we first kissed and got married 5 months later.

My dad taught me that if a guy is interested in you, you'll know it.  You dont need to call, plan dates, pick you up, etc.  When you make it too easy they soon lose interest.  Took me a long damn time to realize it too.  Finally wised up, and are celebrating 21 years married this month.

I’m such a disaster… 40 years old and trying to figure out from YouTube whether a 30 year old man likes me… I’m a gem! 😂

A man that likes or loves you will NEVER EVER mistreat you. No more no less

A man only talking about himself and not asking questions and showing interest in who you are, is a major turn off for most women

He has zero interest. It has been two years of chasing him.
Pathetic.
I can laugh at it now.
I wish him the best.

If he doesn’t approach, ask you out, or continues a strong connection, ladies don’t waste your time. STOP hoping and let go of the Luke warm guys who just don’t have the guts to move forward. It only puts you in the drivers seat begging for attention.

So many men get away with very low effort while women are out here improving our looks and our lives only to settle for a guy we feel sorry for. If you can’t take rejection, and if you’re not willing to put yourself out there and get hurt, dating and marriage is just not for you. I love this channel, but I’m really starting to notice that the only thing that is ever discussed is how women should contort themselves to appease men, when the sperm always chases the egg, it’s the law of nature🙏🏾

Now I know that he doesn't like me!!

My standard of man liking me : they tell me or ask me out

A guy I used to date asked me once, about a problem he had;  'You're good with kids... What would you do if I were a kid?' I started having alot of compassion for him, but then I felt like.. I don't wanna be his mom. I want a man, not a little boy

When a man like/ want a woman there’s nothing anyone can do because he’ll be there anytime you turn around . He’ll look at you he’ll know when you come and his face tells you he’s waiting for you to show up .

To be perfectly honest, a man's willingness to tell stories about himself sounds like a great barometer to use. I hate, hate, hate it when guys ask me 21 questions in rapid succession with no interest in even answering their own questions. Those guys are just qualifying me like they are checking my credit for a loan. "You got kids? How old are you? What do you do?"

I got fooled from many men who seem interested in me, so many times that I took suchha longgggggg time to learn that "Women should never chase men!!"

Ladies ...ladies hear me out .... Never ever approach 1st 🤡 . I made that mistake thinking he is an insecure guy , but he turned out to be arrogant🤐🙏🏻 . Made a fool out of myself