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Man, tbh...im gettn to the point i dont care what she thinks.
Its exhausting. I love her, but its hard to be with someone who is half in and half out.

Unfortunately this isn't a long term fix, it will just bring them back for a few months, then you have to start again. Just find someone who is able to reciprocate.

doesn’t matter you go silent, you never are their priority

NO CONTACT & blocked permanently allow me to open my eyes.  I'm watching this just bc I'm curious lol.  Avoidants are horrible, selfish people.  They should never date PERIOD.

It's crazy they juggle multiple partners, and you have to date others to get their focus😂

Just let them go, the breadcrumbs and monkey branching will demoralize you and you will be in therapy for years recovering your own self esteem. If you think they were " special," the only thing that made them " special " was the ability to completely dismantle your self worth in record time. Nothing to miss. Move on.

15 months no contact. Healing and healthier and still horribly terribly destructively attached. Cannot imagine happiness if we reconnect. Therapy therapy therapy.

It’s all game playing, but instead of playing their ego you’re playing a damaged person….

I have been with my avoidant for 3 years , long enough to realize the relationship dynamic isn’t normal and I was making myself miserable . I’ve never gotten any recognition for birthdays , holidays , or overall accomplishments. I lost myself in the circle of them love bombing me then slowly going back to being distant . The minute I am pulling away they would drag me closer .  I went from feeling sorry to realizing they are the problem , and everything they do is intentional. I’m okay with being alone and in a weird way they forced me to learn to be alone throughout the relationship, I now sit down and eat alone , watch movies alone , go to places alone , but most importantly I don’t feel lonely anymore . All they do is ruin lives , and won’t work on themselves.

Don’t waste your time with an avoidant.

I’ve been studying your videos because my girlfriend is a disorganized avoidant. I finally gave up and left her. She was completely numb showed zero emotion. I quit, I give up, I left.

By the time I’ve completed the triangle, I quit giving a fuck and could careless what she does v

The best strategy if dealing with an avoidant is to leave them behind - and find freedom and peace 😊🙌🏼 (never again!!) after a massive heartbreak nine months ago, and a 4 yr relationship, I feel so much better - never ever ever again will I engage with an avoidant, I didn't know anything about attachment styles but now I know what to look for and what to avoid.

These shenanigans are futile and exhausting.

It was a very damaging experience, full of laughter and wonderful times followed by disappearing acts and too much uncertainty and a lot of tears but despite the torture especially towards the end I'm so glad that I have freed myself from it all.
Avoid avoidants - highly recommended.

Yay, let's use sarcasm and irony for a topic that could cost someone's life

Sinceramente, manifestar meus desejos nunca fez muito sentido para mim, e depois de um tempo comecei a sentir que eu simplesmente não era boa nisso. Fiz o teste de arquétipos da Vera Hart sem grandes expectativas, mas o resultado foi estranhamente preciso. Na verdade, me ajudou a perceber o que eu estava fazendo de errado. Experimente! ❤️

It's been a year divorce is finalized she says we will not get back together. Yet I miss her painfully.  It would take an act of God to bring her back.  I have spent the last year working on myself I wish she would see the new me.

Ok why did my advoidant tell me everything on the thumbnail during our 2 plus years of shit he put me through . I think he is finally gone for real now .

This video is so straight to the point. Thank you. I’m going through the journey … No contact starting two weeks ago initiated by me because I don’t feel valued when I was with him. Btw, he’s obviously a fearful avoidant.
Manifesting a better self, namaste~

doesn't work. i desappeared she texted me and as soon as i responded she blocked my ass again.