"They have unconditional love"*

*Terms and conditions apply, see parent for details

Her response to "choosing to be born" is WILD. "We didn't choose YOU we chose A child and YOU decided to be born." Lady that is NOT how this works.

"You chose to win that race" I'm not a fucking gamete

That smile when she said that "Fear is a motivator." Absolute sociopath... No wonder her child is estranged from her.

The slow speech, the strong eye contact, the shit-eating grin, the subtle condescending question and sigh-laughing. She's manipulative and she absolutely knows that, the use of her emotional dissonance is a tactic to make you angry and uncomfortable, to appear more genuine and to come across as being in a higher/better position by appearing more well-spoken and less emotional.

I watched this video with my earbuds in and my two year old sis in my lap. She smiled and wanted to hold the phone when Kiwi was on screen and immediately handed it back when the mom was on screen so I guess even her vibes are rancid lol

I bet these people watch Tangled and wonder why Mother Gothel doesn't get to have Rapunzel at the end.

Every single estranged parent: "My child is horrible and selfish and entitled and took advantage of me all the time, woe is me."
THEN WHY ARE YOU SO MAD THAT THEY'RE GONE???

Oh my god, that little smile when she says "capeesh?" makes me want to write her a long letter why I don't want to have contact with her any longer and I don't even know her.

She can't gaslight her child anymore so she's just projecting the gaslighting energy into her tiktok videos, it's really pathetic and almost sad

Racism aside for just a second: Why do they always confuse fear for respect??? Fear is not and never will be respect.

These parents are literally just going “you can’t fire me, I quit!” at their kids.

you can hear all the years she spent screaming at her kids in the raspiness of her voice

"Fear is a huge motivator" is not something you say as a parent. That's something you would say if you were a military drill instructor.

8:45 is giving: "Hey, remember how you owe me money. You still haven't psid me back." "Omg it's always about money with you!!" That's what it's like.  He kids are saying,  "hey, remember when you did XYZ? That really hurt and you still haven't apologized." And she's going,  "OMG everything is always my fault, why do you hate me??"

3:08  is she really trying to blame her child for ‘choosing’ to be born?? these parents always make it so obvious why they’re estranged.

You can't be a doormat if no one's trying to walk near you, let alone on you. 🤷‍♀️

First one: Ma'am, you can't unconsciously do anything before you have a consciousness, let alone a brain.

16:18 you aren’t losing your mind. Her “hot take” was crazy.  She was literally saying that other kids aren’t becoming estranged from their parents because they are “too afraid to”.  In her mind every single child out there wants to be estranged from their parents and it is only the parents who can instill true fear in their children who don’t have them become estranged.  🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

Speaking as someone who had, "fear," as a motivator growing up (I wasn't beaten, but I had belongings destroyed), it does not work. It gets kids to lie in order to not get in trouble. It gets kids to sneak around in order to not get in trouble. And when they do actually get in serious trouble, they're not gonna turn to their parents for advice or comfort; they're gonna feel the need to tackle whatever mess they're in on their own… except they were never given the tools to do so.