When you tell them "no," it's all downhill from there.

The fact that someone can discard you says everything we need to know regardless of who they are

I am speechless, the first 20 minutes of the video explain so well my experience with an ex narcissist partner. It all happened. There is no one better than you @Sam Vaknin understanding what goes in a narcissists mind.

I wouldn’t mind being with a woman who has survived and left a narcissistic borderline personality disordered partner. I feel like we would be so understanding to each other like no other. ❤

I remember hearing that I had changed.  When I asked how, they couldn't answer.

I think my parents had a narcissist-borderline relationship. My mum was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, but listening to this sounds like it could have been a misdiagnosis.

Coming to check if my partner is a narcissist
Ending up discovering I am the narcissist 🤡💀

It's incredible, but you are so correct. Your description is so point on. Wow, you are the expert on narcissistic behavior and mindset.  Dealing with a narcisist is just poisonous to your  overall life and health, and eventually, deadly. Run.

I've been diagnosed of having two different  type of cluster B disorder, explaining about borderline is top tier.

All evil comes from fear

Im 39 years old my mother is horrible and she's keeping me alive and sick in her life i have nothing because of her

“Don’t ever mix your drink”😂thank you Prof. Sam Vaknin.

Narcissistic perception is covered from (0:02 - 20:29).
Borderline perception is discussed from (20:30 - 47:56).
Codependent perspective is analyzed from (47:57 - 1:03:48).
Psychopathic perception is explored from (1:03:49 - 2:25:31).

Fascinating, in depth study from this century’s most brilliant mind explaining this subject.  As usual, those who are not on his level will disagree with my comment.  If they can write & explain better than Vaknin, I’m willing to pay attention.  Malignant Self Love & Don Quijote are my favorite books!❤

Do you have a camera hidden in my house and you've been observing the dynamics for the past 18 years? 😅 I'm filing for divorce next week. He's gone hating me, he finally discarded me. The reality check that he will face soon will not be pleasant...

This information is fascinating and so helpful

I have borderline personality disorder and some is true for me however I’ve never left anyone unless it was unsafe to stay and often stayed longer than I should have. Definitely can be shopaholic and workaholic to make myself feel better and it’s true what he’s saying about acting out phase , I put myself into 3 years of therapy so I could be a better person and it completely changed my life and my relationships.🙏🏽
If you want to change you can. You have to want better.

Thank you so much for this video , insightful and offers clarity

Omg it’s very hard to have such a person as partner

yes yes yes (for the narcissist parts) . OMG . Hearing these talks is just incredible. I have seen over the years many channels and peeked a bit to listen to some; some are pretty good, but not enough to really capture the complete essence of what this thing called narcissism really is. But these talks captivate me. They are indeed recounting my life (as lived as the "partner" of a narcissist for decades)