hello everyone! a little bit of self advertising for my queer safe space discord server i've created for us folks to have a space to yap, have fun, play games, watch stuff and maybe even giveaways!!! would love to talk to you all and start a little community up! strictly sfw & non discriminatory space for a bit of comfort & connection :)))
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thank you so much for putting black transmascs/trans men in your comps!!! i love seeing other trans people who actually look like me, makes me feel a little less alone :]

bro as a trans man I’m forced to go to an all girls school and it internally makes me cringe every time my teacher says “girls! Girls!” Like FAHHHH bro

5:08 finally someone said it!! as a transmasc i feel very uncomfortable when queer women just demonize men. i feel very unwelcome in my own space just because of the way i identify. cis/trans queer men are part of the community as well, the moment you demonize their male identity you're no better than cishet men stereotyping/discriminating against women.

Rant: I went into the girls bathroom in school as I’m a not out trans guy, yet I have my hair short, there was young kids and they said “why is there a boy!! Ewww!!” And me and my friend were like “I’m a girl??” And they were like “but you look and sound like a guy!!” And it was so gender affirming 😭

1:00 OK but wtf the bf and the art, stunning how

Hearts to all my fellow transmascs out there, hope you’re doing well 🩵🩵🩵

4:29 shiii I've been grousemogged and idk what to do

12:35 I'm gonna peeface this by saying that YES trans men/transmascs can be feminine or bottoms, etc., but this is also super prevalent in mlm works where the trans guy is always the bottom, always smaller, always cutsey or bratty in some kind of way, etc. It's not universal, but it's something I've noticed in the majority of works, where being a trans guy means you're almost always confined to more traditionally feminine roles in a GAY relationship

2:26 LITERALLY ME

I went through those pronouns in that exact order (then tried using he/she pronouns or something like that, believing I might be genderfluid, before going back to he/him)

I’m 14 and transmasc, I asked my mum for a binder and she said she’d think about it. Idk if I’m actually gonna get one but I’m still really happy she accepts me

8:58 at the ripe age of 7 I was like, lowk who would wants to be a girl?? (I was alone in that thought)

one core memory to me, in my questioning journey, was "i want to have big boobs be a woman! but i also want to have muscles and big boobs like a man does.... oh man, if i had to choose a superpower, i wish it was that i could change between a big-boob woman and a big-boob man. sighs ....." and like, i knew at the time that being a binary woman was NOT something i wanted, nor a binary man.

there was a time at the start [of my questioning journey], that i said: "i am not a man nor a woman, i am whatever i want to be!", which, to me, its THE definition to 'Agender', which i came to discover such label ONE(1) year after. and know, i just, simply choose to not label my gender. i do have some labels here and there that do explain what i feel and i do use them, i just feel like i should stop trying to do that; for the sake of my sanity (/s).

anyways, great content Jay, keep up the good work, my guy! <33

Great comp as always, I just wanted to say I hope everyone is having a great summer. And keeping the self doubt at bay. Remember you are a man, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. :3

yo im scared the first one is literally my life and now im crying.

My is my tv is gowing

GUESS WHO JUST GOT HIS FIRST BINDER FROM SPENCERS ✨✨✨✨✨

I got a loose one bc none of the tight ones would fit around my shoulders but ngl this actually works so well :3

I think I’ll go back and try and find one that I can just barely squeeze around my shoulders that’s a little tighter but this one is loose enough that I could probably work out in it.

5:50 is honestly so important and relatable, God damn

3:33 YESSSSS ABSOLUTELY 100%, IDC WHAT THEY ARE OR WHO THEY ARE! THEY ARE TRANS TO ME! (ahem, Jotaro and 2D I'm looking you dead in the eyes)

7:25 he looks like my uncle if he was white woaw