4 adults terrified at having to pay the bills that op was covering by herself. Plus they had the nerve to cry poverty yet had enough to cover for the celebration trip for 4 adults while op was again neglected. You donât give ah like this an advance warning, they just use it to shout and guilt you some more.
OP let this happen by not setting boundaries and enforcing them! In life people will always try to take advantage of you, hence â a back backbone â and no one not holding a gun brushes me with when I am stating my boundaries.