Being real in a fake world is a lonely road.

Ive had the horrific pleasure of being at an all female party as the only guy, it was me and like 12 women and I swear to God the concept of strong independent women doesnt actually exist in their minds bc for 8 hours straight all they talked about was men... Men they wanted to sleep with, men they were with and currently dating who just aren't enough, men who they've slept with that just suck, it was just men men men and them lying to each other NONSTOP!! it was disgusting.. then I fooled with one early into the party and she started bragging about it and I proceeded to fool around with 2 of the other girls by the end of the night and it was all so they could cause drama in their own friend group... Like literally to spite each other. I will never attend a party like that again it was SO toxic and drama filled like they thrive off of it.

My wife is in a book club with a bunch of woman. We would all hang out on weekends occasionally with their husbands. Wow! I got a glimpse into how a female social group works. What a nightmare. So much competition. Subtly bringing each other down. Sideways comments. The gossiping.  I’m glad my wife got kicked out! What a bunch of dingbats. These are woman in their 50’s too. It was sad tbh. Grown woman acting like high school kids.

I’m glad I have the type of wife that gets kicked out of a group like that.

If she has friends it's a red flag

I look around my large city--every single younger woman is constantly communicating furiously on their phone without a pause. It's like they are some crisis action team that never stops operations.

Keep doing your content!

This girl is so smart on social dynamics

Now imagine women in everything in our governments.

"An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife—and his interests are divided... I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord."  1 Cor 7:32–35

"I would never be a member of a club that would accept me as a member." Groucho Marx

Being alone and being happy is the greatest blessing in life. Remember misery loves company. Joy is a solo endeavor.

Pearl I like how you say you're a loner and more into whatever you're doing. Men often are the same way. I think you're interesting for that.

I was in a local walking group, and four women were targeting other people in the group in a cowardly way ... mainly men. It got to the stage where some of the men didn’t bother turning up anymore.  I had spent a few months documenting what they were doing and passed the information on to the people who organised the walks throughout the North of England. They were promptly removed from the group, and a “Bullying will not be tolerated” message was posted in all the Facebook groups for the regional walkers.  That weekend, the four of them must have sent about 400 very heated messages to the WhatsApp walking group aimed at me. I ate more popcorn than normal watching the messages flood in.  I also got a very laughable “You can’t handle independent women” text message from one of them, which I found quite amusing, as cowards tend to do things in groups rather than independently.

The hardest thing about being a woman...is the other women

Speak your mind without worrying what other people think.  If you have friends who want to get pissed at you so easily, then they are not really your friends.

Being a loner just means your circle of freinds is just smart people and events.
not a bad way to live.  
Once you stop caring what other people think, and can have the true freedom to say what's on your mind?
YOU truly are free.

My wife shared personal details about me to All her friends and family....she seemed to not understand why it hurt me.

The audacity of quitting Audacity

they usually tend to gaslight themselves like "he didn't deserved you" "you did your best" "you put your needs always second to others" and s...t like that

I love your attitude 😂 so much, and you are a treasure, a legend, such actually a positive person.