We are not here because we are invested in your relationship... we are invested in you.
And you are a great guy.

Having a relationship that was respectful from start to finish is always a successful relationship.

Oh Joel, the broken relationship is not a failure.  I’m sure there was a lot of “life experiences” that you are grateful for.  Best wishes to you both.

Very sorry Joel.  Glad it's not a acrimonious parting.

Never be embarrassed of your life.  I am sorry for you both, you are both lovely people.  You have the best parents also!

Your family are the best people. I still cannot believe this had happened.

Never saw that coming. I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry Joel. Take good care of yourself.

Don’t be embarrassed about your relationship ending. You have learned from this relationship. Positive thoughts for you.

I think we are all shocked. It just goes to show what you see on social media isn’t always what is happening behind the scenes. 💔

I’m so sorry that it didn’t work out, Joel. Obviously, I don’t know the two of you, but I feel like a couple of my friends broke up. My heart hurts for both of you, the kids and the pups. It will be such a big change for all. I’m am happy to hear it ended on good terms. Best of luck to the both of you.

Good for you - I give you a lot of credit.  Many people would just bury themselves and not leave the house.  I like your positive attitude and good things are coming.

Wait! What?! Joel. I'm so sorry. This right after saying goodbye to your house in London and investing in the kitchen redo etc. I know this has been such a ride the last four years for both of you with so much good and so many challenges of all kinds. Sending so much love! And comfort ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for being willing to share with us.
Edit to add: after watching the whole thing. Please be good to yourself, no apologies, and ignore the haters. It makes sense you feel what you do about it all. But I hope you only mean failure in the sense that heartbreak from ending what you invested in. But if you were true to yourself and were giving your best, it's not a failure at all. You can grieve, take the good into your next stage of life and release the rest. And yes, great mindset shift into having fresh start with your belongings home location and love when you're ready.

PS, your brothers place looks amazing. Can't wait to see more as it goes, if you decide to share that. Always love seeing your family! ❤❤

You are brave. It's hard being vulnerable.

Shocked when I saw the title then thought it was just click bait. So sorry. Thought you guys were in it for the long haul. Hope you can remain friends. Congrats to your brother for his house. Don’t move out of your parents house too soon. Love seeing videos with them.

😮 I thought for sure "We broke up" was going to be a silly little teaser about your breakup with snacks or something. I'm so sorry, Joel. You don't owe us anything but most of us are here to listen judgment free if you need to vent. Breakups are awful but starting a new chapter can be freeing. We're here for you. ❤

Oh Joel I'm so shocked. I really thought you were heading for a wedding.  Take care xx

Life is like one big train journey joel, people get on with you for a few stops and some stay on till the journey ends...but thats part of the whole experience. You're doing Amazing, keep doing you and enjoy it for whatever it is 😊

Oh, no. That makes me so sad. You are a good person.  You are strong.  On behalf of your viewers...we love you.

I never expected would happen and thought the title was click bait. I am not in a position nor my business to judge and I hope the change turns out to be the best outcome for both of you. Warmest regards.