The problem is that we can’t say these things to or about BW because it considered “bashing”….

Shahrazad Ali accurately described the issues Black men have with our women over 30 years ago, and black women shamed her for it. And the sad thing is, over the years all the problems she pointed out have only gotten exponentially worse.

These two speak with kindness, humility, and truth.

She speaks the truth. The problem is how many black women are listening.

I could listen to Sister Ali alll day❣️ Her teachings are timeless. I’m glad you share one of her best lectures!  Congratulations on your subscriber milestone 👏🏾💚👏🏾. (BTW:  she is a Muslimah)

My fiance' doesn't like when I cuss, especially the F word. He has a potty mouth, but he feels that a lady shouldn't curse like a sailor. He is 60 and I am 53. He was raised by older parents. His mom was 42 and his dad was 32 when he was born. They had old morals. He said he never heard a curse word from his mom. I try really hard to watch my mouth, but sometimes it's so hard! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️😂

"Facts don't care about your feelings." - Shahrazad Ali.

I'm not black but I like her and can learn from her!

Dr. Sharazad Ali DID adress the behavior of Black Men as well. She wrote an entire book on the subjects "The Black Woman's guide to Understanding the Black Man"

To the question about profanity, I definitely don't like being around a woman with a filthy mouth. I have to tolerate it in public, but I don't want it in my home.

Just an excellent, excellent broadcast by you two. I loved your insights. Regarding Sister Ali, every time I hear the good sister's words, I become increasingly and more impressed by her intellect, logic, and awareness.

I hate when women cuss!

Yeah, as a man, no on polygamy. One woman is more than enough.

Men value respect over love

While I don't agree with everything this sister said, she conveyed a few integral points. As it pertains to how the black woman should carry herself specifically. So many of our young black women need to hear this. We currently live in a society that glorifies promiscuity, and that's a huge problem. That's why so many men approach these women for sex with no regard for a woman's likes, dislikes, aspirations, etc. Modesty is admirable and a sign of self-respect. Too bad that's not a popular concept though. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I agree men have children with a lot of women but do women choose these men with children involved they do for the most

Love this lady she's not lying

You guys are fair,on your critique of Sis.Ali.Appreciate that.

My grandfather told me a long time ago (back in the 80's). Men built legacies, and women built closets. You have to always be responsible.

Sometimes when she is not clean either she wasn’t taught or she is severally depressed.

I'm a late comer to the channel. YES! I HATE when women cuss! Tongue is set on fire of hell!