They Avoid You Because You See Through Them (The Truth About Discernment)
Fred Jones
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Some people don’t avoid you because you’re arrogant…
They avoid you because you see straight through them.
In this powerful teaching, we break down the real meaning of discernment not paranoia, not trauma, not suspicion but spiritual perception.
If you’ve ever
Felt a shift in someone’s tone
Caught envy behind a compliment
Lost access to rooms after leveling up
Been called “too deep” or “hard to read”
Noticed people get uncomfortable around you
This message is for you.
Discernment is expensive.
It costs you invites.
It costs you access.
It costs you popularity.
But it protects your oil.
In this 31-minute deep dive, we unpack:
✔️ The difference between discernment and trauma
✔️ Why discerning people have small circles
✔️ How light exposes hidden motives
✔️ Why insecure spirits feel uncomfortable around you
✔️ How to sharpen discernment biblically
✔️ When to confront vs when to withdraw
✔️ How to keep your heart soft but your spirit sharp
Scripture references included:
📖 Hebrews 5:14
📖 Matthew 7:16
📖 John 1:5
📖 1 Corinthians 2:15
📖 Proverbs 4:23
📖 1 Kings 3:9
If you’re called to leadership, marriage, business, or ministry discernment is not optional. It’s essential.
Watch until the end. The final section will shift how you see your gift.
🔥 Subscribe for weekly prophetic wisdom, leadership clarity, and spiritual depth.
00:00 – Intro: Why Discerners Don’t Stay in Every Room
02:18 – Discernment Is Not Paranoia
05:12 – Why You See Things Others Miss
08:34 – The Cost of Discernment (Rooms, Access & Invites)
12:07 – Why People Get Uncomfortable Around You
15:26 – Discernment vs Trauma (Important Difference)
18:41 – You Stop Being Impressed by Charisma
21:03 – When to Confront vs When to Withdraw
24:18 – Protecting Your Oil
27:02 – How to Sharpen Discernment Biblically
30:10 – Final Prophetic Charge
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They Avoid You Because You See Through Them (The Truth About Discernment)
Fred Jones
99,244 views
If you’re serious about changing your life, don’t just subscribe.
Take your seat.
Join The Table today: it’s my private group where I pour wisdom into people’s specific situation ⬇️
https://www.skool.com/thetable/about?...
YouTube is where I share wisdom.
The Table is where I pour into people.
Your next level isn’t waiting on more information. It’s waiting on implementation.
Thousands watch the videos.
The ones who want transformation pull up a chair at The Table.
Every week, I personally pour into our community through live teaching, strategy, relationships, business, purpose, discernment, and the conversations that never make it to social media.
Because success isn’t built by watching.
It’s built by applying.
Social media is where you discover wisdom.
The Table is where wisdom becomes results.
I will see you there and can’t wait to meet you!
Join Here ⬇️
https://www.skool.com/thetable/about?...
Every Thursday Live at 6PM Est, you can also catch live replays that you missed
Some people don’t avoid you because you’re arrogant…
They avoid you because you see straight through them.
In this powerful teaching, we break down the real meaning of discernment not paranoia, not trauma, not suspicion but spiritual perception.
If you’ve ever
Felt a shift in someone’s tone
Caught envy behind a compliment
Lost access to rooms after leveling up
Been called “too deep” or “hard to read”
Noticed people get uncomfortable around you
This message is for you.
Discernment is expensive.
It costs you invites.
It costs you access.
It costs you popularity.
But it protects your oil.
In this 31-minute deep dive, we unpack:
✔️ The difference between discernment and trauma
✔️ Why discerning people have small circles
✔️ How light exposes hidden motives
✔️ Why insecure spirits feel uncomfortable around you
✔️ How to sharpen discernment biblically
✔️ When to confront vs when to withdraw
✔️ How to keep your heart soft but your spirit sharp
Scripture references included:
📖 Hebrews 5:14
📖 Matthew 7:16
📖 John 1:5
📖 1 Corinthians 2:15
📖 Proverbs 4:23
📖 1 Kings 3:9
If you’re called to leadership, marriage, business, or ministry discernment is not optional. It’s essential.
Watch until the end. The final section will shift how you see your gift.
🔥 Subscribe for weekly prophetic wisdom, leadership clarity, and spiritual depth.
00:00 – Intro: Why Discerners Don’t Stay in Every Room
02:18 – Discernment Is Not Paranoia
05:12 – Why You See Things Others Miss
08:34 – The Cost of Discernment (Rooms, Access & Invites)
12:07 – Why People Get Uncomfortable Around You
15:26 – Discernment vs Trauma (Important Difference)
18:41 – You Stop Being Impressed by Charisma
21:03 – When to Confront vs When to Withdraw
24:18 – Protecting Your Oil
27:02 – How to Sharpen Discernment Biblically
30:10 – Final Prophetic Charge