How to raise a happy and fulfilled child? Should you constantly monitor your children, help them with everything, and strive to give them "the best"?

In this episode, we spoke with Marina Targakova, a psychologist, teacher, and specialist in humane pedagogy, about raising children, family relationships, and why it's important to start with yourself before raising a child.

Timecodes:
0:00 — Teaser
0:51 — Welcome and introduction of Marina Targakova.
1:42 — Marina's path to humane pedagogy (medicine, psychology, spirituality).
2:57 — How to raise happy and fulfilled children?
3:15 — Example: A daughter tells her mother the truth about her unhappiness.
4:02 — "Which department are you speaking through?" (irritation, resentment, or happiness and wisdom).
4:38 — Parenting through personal image.
5:30 — Happiness = inner harmony and peace.
6:08 — Why are children of successful parents apathetic? Overprotection.
7:13 — The example of street children in India vs. modern overprotection.
8:53 — Children need challenges and real relationships.
9:48 — Balance: be passionate and share with your child.
10:28 — An example of Marina's spiritual experience and her adult son's reaction.
12:21 — Share values, emotions, and insights. Don't overload.
14:50 — Raising single-parent families. "The whole village," community, heavenly Father.
16:28 — Don't feel alone. "Wells" of life, letters to God.
19:34 — The roles of mother (relationships, harmony) and father (meaning, perspective).
20:33 — How to instill hard work? Personal example + meaning (the cleaning story).
22:38 — Three ways to parent: the whisper of love, the voice of conscience, the mouthpiece of suffering.
24:50 — Why are children in the same family different? Character, karma, and parental development.
27:54 — Children come with character. Parenting is the development of the parents themselves.
29:36 — How to develop curiosity? Hiking, nature, discovering together.
31:46 — Attitude to schools and teachers. A teacher "from God."
34:22 — Success in school ≠ success in life. The importance of relationships.
36:48 — The feminine power of words and eloquence. The family atmosphere.
38:43 — Why is the divorce rate high in Kazakhstan?
41:37 — When to save a family, and when not?
44:52 — Advice for women in crisis.
46:20 — Conclusion. Acknowledgments and conversation summary.

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