PART 2 IS LIVE: https://youtu.be/Zqk4hhQWiCk

I’m a 24 year old woman, I’m not married to Mai and yet I want to divorce her😭😭she’s so frustrating. Oh my days😭😭

She’s over compensating because of how insecure she is. She’s treating her husband like a child who can’t take care of himself BECAUSE that’s the dynamic that makes her feel needed. She’s so insecure she can’t think of any other way to feel in control of this relationship (and just any relationship in general) if there’s not a purpose for her being there.

I would like to start a petition, as my right as an American citizen, to demand another part of this next week. It can be unedited. It can be 7 hours long. I don’t care. I need it.

Seriously though, that husband needs to be rescued. He is in a severe abusive relationship.  The financial control, emotional abuse, gaslighting, walking on eggshells, impossible to please, unrealistic expectations...she ticks all the boxes of an abuser. I wouldnt be surprised if she was physically abusive when cameras arent present.  Husband needs to run!!

I'm a therapist so let me say this straight - this is PSYCHOLOGICAL AND FINANCIAL ABUSE. She's a textbook narcissist.

She is so draining and suffocating but whenever you try to talk about the issues she’s like a wall. The only way to solve this as a husband is to save himself and be  free. Free Lee  😭

If Lee gets divorced he would be the most desired Bachelor for his patience and romantic gestures for his wife who complains about everything.

As a autistic person, Mai is literally my worst nightmare, because sometimes everyone sounds exactly like that "I told you to do it, and you didnt" but then the person didnt told me NOTHING and im like "please just tell me what you want!!! 😭😭"

You guys don't get the Shanghai rice cake incident. She was bragging. She used this story because she could brag and complain at the same time. That's why she's always brazen about the diva she is to her husband. She's bragging that even if she treats her husband badly, he still loves her more that the other girls are loved by their husbands.

"Divorce reality show" is one of the most surreal shows imaginable

She’s giving “I’m frugal while we’re married so there’s more for me when we get a divorce “
Diabolical!

This is not a marital issue, it's a HER issue. She is the only problem in this relationship as far as I can tell from what is being conveyed here. Unfortunately, I don't think there's any fixing this woman. So many of these behaviors scream narcissism to me. She is abusing that poor man. Get the divorce.

Mai could write a "How to gaslight your husband" book. This is so crazy

I'm from Ghana and we have a saying here. When someone is taking things way too seriously we say that they are "Taking it World Cup". That wife was ABSOLUTELY taking it world cup 😂

she's a very insecure and materialistic woman but wouldn't want to admit that and wants to paint herself as the victim of the relationship. and highkeyy SHE DOESNT LIKE HER HUSBAND.

there’s this concept called “double bind” where a person sends conflicting messages to the other party in a way that confuses them and makes it so anything they do is wrong. for example, mai asks him to buy her a gift. if he does, she gets mad. if he doesn’t, she also gets mad. for lee, this becomes extremely frustrating because every action leads to anger, disappointment, etc etc etc. unfortunately, this kind of messages are at the core of many marital and family problems.

Stephanie being triggered by her husband’s laughter, then us finding out the villainess laughs constantly.

Mongolia and Inner Mongolia are two different entities, even though their names sound similar. Mongolia is a sovereign state, while Inner Mongolia is part of China with limited autonomy.

"Yay another silly chinese reality show goofy moment. Surely this will be a quick light hearted situation I can watch before wor-TWO HOURS???"