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Weekend Drinker. Looked Fine. Couldn't Remember My Nights.

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A high-functioning weekend drinker with no DUI and no rock bottom explains how gray area drinking hid in plain sight for years.

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In this interview, Meghan sits down with Paula, who had her last drink at 44 after years of weekend drinking that no one around her saw as a problem. Paula shares what finally made her quit drinking, why she didn't qualify for rehab, and how a handful of neighbors meeting weekly grew into a 22-woman alcohol-free group. Now over three years sober, she's a recovery coach helping women who quietly wonder if they drink too much.

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⏱️ Chapters:
0:00 The Night I Couldn't Remember
1:43 Working Out Daily, Drinking on Weekends
7:07 Why "Not That Bad" Kept Me Stuck
8:42 A Full Year Off That "Proved" I Was Fine
9:58 Why Drinking Gets Worse When Life Gets Quiet
21:35 Rebuilding Trust: Apologies vs. Consistency
23:48 Rehab Said I Didn't Qualify
25:35 From Five Neighbors to 22 Women
30:07 The Spiritual Side of Recovery
38:54 Nobody's Coming to Save Me
41:58 "You Didn't Have a Problem"
46:51 The Peace Nobody Talks About
49:26 Meghan's Story: How 75 Hard Ended Her Drinking
59:12 The Solo Cup Didn't Fool Anyone
1:00:52 Physical Changes: Weight, Sleep, Skin, Heartburn

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20 Comments

@TheSUPERHAPPY1 4 hours ago

Podcast: Happiest Hour with Paula Devine

@raymondlin8728 8 days ago (edited)

Happy Friday everyone.
7 years alcohol free
No craving .
Normal Blood pressure
Normal Blood work.
No more medications .
Lost weight low 325lb to about 230lb.
Dr thought I was sick. I said no .
I gave up beer, wine, fast food, mindless snacking.
Eating healthier, walk everyday, nothing crazy, mostly with my pooch. Just standing, moving, cleaning things in the yard, house vs sitting around all day
Peace, quiet, calm around the house
We can do this.

@jessicagonzalez2934 8 days ago

That grey area is such a slippery slope for so many of us. It gives us a false sense of control. We “function” just enough to convince ourselves that we’re okay.
But the truth is, alcohol creates a haze that we’re never fully out of until we completely step away from it.
Until you experience joy, pain, sadness, boredom—even the ordinary moments—with a completely sober mind, you don’t realize just how much of yourself was being muted.

And eventually, you may come to realize that even during the moments when you weren’t drinking, you still weren’t fully yourself.

@Critic-qn3hg 8 days ago

good job you guys, eyes of child, they see everything, hope the best for you, have a great weekend ❤

@tiffanyc85 8 days ago

As the spouse of a heavy drinker, I know this may offend some, but i secretly hope that one day my children will be able to express to their dad the impact his drinking has had on our family. If I can’t get through to him, maybe hearing it from his own children will finally make him understand just how much it affects the people around him.

@PhilAzMan 7 days ago

I absolutely LOVE how this interview takes all the stereotypes of alcoholism off the table.. It’s real and raw showing there are no preconceived notions of jail, rehabs, homelessness, legal issues, ect. required to come to the conclusion that we need to remove alcohol from our life. This shows how an otherwise “normal” average person still looses so much from alcohol and it takes only the ability to see and understand this to catalyze the change. I loved the interview ❤
Thank you for sharing your story with Meghan and all of us!!

@TheSUPERHAPPY1 4 hours ago

How

H: Honest
O: Open
W: Willing

@andreid.6894 4 days ago

Empty nester here...good topic about stopping drinking when kid go to college. It's a very good time to stop drinking, to be available to your kid all the time (mine is abot 100 kilometers away from home). I had very hard moments after she leaved home, drinking was the solution until it wasn't. It's a key moment, a moment that can bring you down for a long time or can lift you up better than you expected. Great episode, Meghan, as usually.

@TheSUPERHAPPY1 4 hours ago

"You can't see the label when you're in the bottle"

@jeanniewhite5687 1 day ago

One of the only podcasts that I've ever listened from beginning to the end because so much of it resonated with my life, down to the adult daughter! I turned 60 yesterday, all of my children and their partners came to a dinner my husband (their dad), set up. I know they see the changes, I know i do! No hangovers, no regrets, etc. It took a breakdown to have a breakthrough. It's one day at a time. I don't think I have Instagram, but I'll get it and subscribe. Thanks for this great video ladies!!❤

@kate60 8 days ago

Excellent interaction. Good for both of you.

@NWH2025 4 days ago

Great lessons here. The only thing I would recommend or add is if it's raining, don't walk in Target. Take a walk out in the rain. You might be surprised at what that can do for you.

@Angelsamongus214 8 days ago

Great one ladies. Very relatable 🎉

@allardvanderstarre 4 days ago

getting along well cleaning out the house

@Rob9mm 4 days ago

30 years of weekend beer binges ended 17 years ago when I cried out to God. My God is mighty to save!

@RLS-my1db 7 days ago

I learned way more in a half hour from you then I did with years of therapist! Exactly your point! Meghan you absolutely know your information!

@RLS-my1db 8 days ago

Loved this episode! I think everyone should do the 12 steps too! I have almost a year and have all my tools from my many resources to stay sober. If you are struggling, please set up a call with Meghan! She was my start to this beautiful journey of sobriety. Watch her videos! If I can get sober anyone can! You will be so so much happier!