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WOMEN EXPRESS HOW THEY HAVE BEEN TRAUMATISED BY MEN | MEN WILL RUIN YOU

Come Mek Wi Talk - My reaction

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Men can shape your life in powerful ways—for better or for worse. In this video, we’re talking honestly about how certain behaviors, relationships, and experiences with men can leave lasting emotional impact, sometimes even trauma.

This isn’t about blaming all men. It’s about recognizing patterns, understanding emotional harm, and giving space to conversations that are often dismissed or minimized.

We’ll explore:
How emotional and psychological trauma can develop in relationships
The subtle ways harm can show up—not just the obvious ones
Why it’s so hard to talk about these experiences
And how healing, boundaries, and self-awareness play a role moving forward

If you’ve ever questioned your experiences or felt like something “wasn’t right” but couldn’t explain it, this conversation is for you.

Your story matters. Your feelings are valid. And understanding is the first step toward healing.

#MentalHealth #Relationships #Healing #SelfWorth #EmotionalAwareness

20 Comments

@ManyBirdz 4 months ago

This is why Im single and celibate for almost a decade now. Best years of my life & the safest too. ❤

@DolceVita 4 months ago

If you stop dating/ sleeping with them, you can heal

@Lavenderquotes-c9t 4 months ago

Choose YOU! Leave these losers alone. They usually need you before you need them. Once you realize how much peace without an ungrateful man in your presence you're not going to care to be in a relationship. You do not have to deal with these men leave them where they at.

@susanhart-j5y 4 months ago

I let go of dating 44 years ago. I've grown so much.
I completely understand your post.

@MyriadLove 4 months ago

Ladies... you should be receiving not giving. That's why you're tired. No sex! It's not just the man draining you, it's aaaalllllllll of his 'soul ties' draining you. Hint : It's spiritual.

@Selene_Antonia 4 months ago

The exhaustion is real as fuck.

@hopextalk 4 months ago (edited)

I can't over emphasize it on this my YouTube channel, women know your worth.

@xiamariansupreme72 4 months ago

Not dating or even talking to men, as well as coming to terms with the fact that men are evil creatures are both extremely liberating. Just truly and finally no longer denying the fact that men are demonic entities is freeing.

@JeannineGisendaner-m9f 4 months ago

The craziness is they hurt Whole communities,, they sell drugs to our younger sons who in up murdered or caught up in gun violence or drive by shootings, they abducted our daughters rape them or molest younger babies, .,, we have diseases from down- low men secretly creeping with our husbands and boyfriends which is causing major DESTRUCTION in entire communities and causing the breaking up of natural families. Men out hear literally beating beating black women and younger girl up talking about they are transgender transformers or whatever. We are dealing with immorality rates of 50% more more than white women which is 14% for them having our babies in hospitals where they are killing are babies from the wombs sisters.. WE CAN GO ON AND ON WITH THIS TOPIC BUT WE NEED TO COME TOGETHER PRAYER IS VERY IMPORTANT IN THIS CRITICAL TIME…STAY SAFE MY SISTERS

@ayandafree4354 4 months ago

BORN TO BE A HOPELESS ROMANTIC but Forced to MASTER DETACHMENT!!!!!!!!!

@amazinggrace316 4 months ago

I feel her. I am 69 years old been married twice. One divorce one died. I have never had a man treat me well including my dad.

@Yasminescookingshow 4 months ago

My last date was in 2016. Liberating being single.

@ChiaroScuroHealing 4 months ago

I understand. I fight the hardening with every fiber of my being, but I've been a hermit for years now. Sending love and hugs to her and every woman that this resonates with. I had and am still letting go of one thing/trauma at a time.

@scorpionmish 4 months ago

At 44, it's sad but also relieving to hear someone say so eloquently what I felt at 31 when I made the decision to cut myself off from men. I haven't had a relationship, date, or sex since. I didn't have the words for the rage I felt. I never told anyone of my choice. I just lived it. Friends and family didn't notice at first but after about year 3 the questions started. When I told them they thought I was still healing. Now they know I'm standing on business. It's eye opening to see that even though I felt alone in my decision so many others felt the same way I did.

@juliawangu388 4 months ago

I haven't had sex alcohol I don't want any relationship it's very peaceful

@KaraLoves98 4 months ago

Say it again. Straight manipulation to get what they want. Always choose you.

@JoyHarrison 4 months ago

I dealt with a 55 yr old narcissist. He was extremely deceitful. I couldn't believe a 55 yr old man was so dishonest and immature.
He has a grown daughter and regularly attends church, and none of that prevented him from being deceitful. We have a mutual friend who each of us has known for decades. This friend introduced us. None of that caused him to treat me right.
I had to ask the mutual friend if he had known that his friend was so immature, dishonest and selfish.
He said he didn't know he was like that when it comes to dealing with women.
I'm waiting for karma to reveal his demise to me soon.

@Yonnaflowchronicles 4 months ago (edited)

I’m starting to see the light. Stop being nice to them. If women are going to continue to choose to be in relationships or marriages with these dudes always prioritize your independence while within it. Definitely don’t ever attach to potential.

@TheCocoaSwann 4 months ago (edited)

I truly felt the pain, suffering, and hurt from that first young lady in particular. Agreed - I wish I could hug her.
It's taken all of my energy to not hate all men. How sad that's where we are as a society. And I'm dedicated to 4B. It's been a healing journey (but it's not been easy).

@coreysue3451 4 months ago

You just can't trust guys. They lie so much to hook you. We all have experienced this insanity. Gambling, secret drinking/drugging, missing items and gaslighting, no food left, dirty habits and basic uncleanness, takes car without asking, won't shop or clean. Yelling, name-calling, disappearing for days...and when you leave, the final insult is their surprise. And they also tell all your secrets to their friends and family.