You asked the questions. Jimmy answered them.

In this Q&A, I sit down with my husband, Jimmy, and ask him questions submitted directly by our followers about his affair and what was happening inside of him during that time.

We get into some of the questions betrayed partners really want answered. Why wouldn’t you use protection during an affair? Did you love the affair partner? Did you feel guilty when you looked at your wife? How did you justify what you were doing? And what do you understand now that you couldn’t see then?

These are raw and uncomfortable conversations, but they matter. Jimmy answers from his own experience, not to excuse the affair, but to give you a window into the mindset of a betrayer and what accountability and healing can look like on the other side.

If you’re navigating betrayal, whether you choose to stay or go, I hope something in this conversation helps you feel a little less alone.