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James Sexton: Are You Born A Cheater?

James J Sexton

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Welcome back to Better Call Sexton! Today on the show, it's the cheating episode. We break down everything on the topic of cheating - if it's genetic, societal pressures, fear of abandonment, religion, ego. You'll only get an episode like this at Sexton show!

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - Today On The Show..
0:30 - Is cheating genetic?
11:45 - Will society change their views on cheating?
15:40 - Fear Of Abandonment vs. Ego
21:20 - Questionable GF Activities At The Yung Gravy Concert
27:50 - Glitter Cheating - Women Wear Glitter On Dates To Catch Men
32:00 - Thanks For Watching! Like & Subscribe

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20 Comments

@booksandtea2421 8 months ago

Did the interviewer really say cheating is just a social construct? Let’s be real-cheating isn’t a made-up rule like wearing white after Labor Day. It’s a betrayal of trust, plain and simple. You don’t get to dismiss morality just because it’s inconvenient. If you want to live loosely, fine. But don’t act like that lifestyle deserves philosophical cover.

@clouis906 8 months ago

I'm predisposed to watching Better Call Sexton

@Sir_Joshua_Zanetta 8 months ago

I often found that many times "Traditions are solutions to problems, we've forgotten we had." suggesting that the fence is up to protect the sheep from wolves, taking down the fence because you don't know why it's there will re-teach the sheep why there needs to be a fence up.

@ExecutiveZombie 8 months ago

People need to learn how to listen and critical thinking. 🤔 💭

@tiffanys.9571 8 months ago

Clicked on this immediately for “cheating in the DNA”…I’m glued. Thank you Sexton team!

@rosab6259 8 months ago

If you have a tendency to have a wandering eye, keep away from danger… pretty simple 😂 I promise IT IS that simple. Know yourself and set limits.
Thank you James ♥️ So golden!!

@crisramospsique 7 months ago (edited)

I'm writing from Brazil. I didn't know you until I saw your interview on The Diary of a CEO channel. I'm very impressed and want to learn everything you have to offer. As a psychologist, I'm specializing in relationship psychology, and hearing so much about the subject has awakened me and given me insights I didn't have before. I would like to take a course with you; how could I do that? Thank you so much for sharing so many pearls of wisdom with us. Besides that, I loved your sensitivity, even though you're a lawyer. Your heart, it's clear, is huge. Thank you.

@flameout5786 7 months ago

What I like about this channel is that it goes beyond just talking about marriage. There's always some good general life advice in there, or some very good perspective of certain subjects. It's quality content!❤

@janeyrevanescence12 8 months ago

At least three members of my family (including my father and grandfather) were philanderers. And that’s what we know of.

And honestly? My fears of me cheating are far higher than my fears of being cheated on if that makes sense. I’m absolutely terrified that I’m going to be just like my father and treat my future husband badly.

Making matters worse is well meaning people who tell me that I’m not going to cheat because of how worried I am about it…which doesn’t make things better. It feels an awful lot like these people are telling me to shut up because they don’t want to hear about my fears.

@voidcatx 7 months ago

Oh baby 😂
Jim, lovely smile, great use of language and so so smart. Wow hot combo. Keep doing your shows.

@nathalieruiz3817 1 month ago

This video was all around insightful. James spoke about the topic with anecdotal and empirical reasoning. His background in cultural anthropology is so apparent and, honestly, it's so fucking refreshing to me! Also, whoever was cackling in the background during the video of the girl at the concert, was hilarious! 😂

@newman7910 8 months ago

I can see this being used as a crutch to bad behavior much like all the other ridiculous reasons cheaters come up with.

@danielle9825 7 months ago

This is probably the most well reasoned take on this subject

@maam-yj8ph 5 months ago

I agree that you have to proactively connect with your spouse. You have to prevent disconnection by constantly building and fortifying the relationship.

@baus.brings.the.party. 8 months ago

Now I have a visual with Jim in his tie... 😍

@nicolereynolds4907 7 months ago

Interesting! I have not heard this “excuse” for cheating before. My better half has always said if a guy cheats it is the woman’s fault. 🤦‍♀️ I disagree with him & think it’s about self control & also holding yourself accountable for your own actions.

@Wild-t5f 8 months ago

Thank you for sharing this informative video. Mr Sexton has taught me more about infidelity here than I’ve ever learned anywhere else.
He is a walking encyclopedia on this subject. 😊

@Amiena-f7f 11 days ago

Watching 👀 from Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦 very informative content.. I’m definitely predisposed to watching Sexton as soon as in comes into my feed 😂😂 👏🏼