Ini hangu nyaya yenyu Mai Rare triggered me ,l saw my mom suffer nekuda kwemoyo wakanaka.she could have had a lot more things than she has now,she started taking care of vanhu immediately after she got married because she wanted and she could afford.Like you said the issue is not pakuti vazochengetwe but a simple thanks would be nice or kunyarara but kuzotanga kutaura zvakashata nekunyepa is something else.The sad thing is l try to be cruel panyaya idzi but l think l took moyo wavo,zvinoramba kuti ndidaro.We never stayed as a family kumba kwedu kuchigara kune vanhu hobho but all of those people vaitanga kupumha huroyi kwavaichengetwa.its so sad
People should just understand kuti kana munhu ane mari ndeyake ne vana vake guys kana atofunga kubatsira tenda nezvawapiwa izvozvo And pakuenzanisa apa panoti netsei mwana wako ndiye ano suffer because ava they will go kwavanoda ava
Every parent's goal is to give their children a better life than they had themselves. For most of us, it means putting our kids in the best schools and giving them good memories. Removing my kids from those schools to accommodate someone is evidence that I can't afford helping someone. If my child's life is being affected by a decision I make then it's a bad decision. Transferring kids means they will lose friends and that can be traumatic for them. Saka, you can help someone. But if $200 is what I can sustainably save and contribute to someone else for fees, then they go to any school at that price. What you get is an opportunity to go to school. Anything else that involves changing the lives of my kids means I can't afford. But if resources permit, maybe someday you afford $400 and you improve the help you are offering. But tazogara tsitsi dzinotsitsirira. Most people who are being helped come with drama. Helping from a distance works for me.
Mai Rare this is a difficult conversation, people are very entitled to things they have no clue or idea how they were obtained or planned for. Some parents are very intentional with parenting and save for their children before they’re born. sometimes children can have inheritance for education etc and then someone comes and questions how you are choosing to help without the full background info. Only thing I recommend is to teach children humility and appreciation for any help they get and also just ignore people cos GOD knows your heart.
27:50 exactly ❤️ People should help and not expect something in return because that’s where people get it all wrong If someone wants to give you something in return that’s on her or him
l have a complaint 😭😭the vlogs akundiitira short,please involve us chero muchicleaner ,muchibika breakfast lunch and dinner.Endai nesu everywhere please 🙏 😂kutokumbirawo,we don’t mind
You are glowing mama Rare nice hairstyle.... my two sense panyaya dzekubatsira especially vana kana vabereki varipo ngavabatsirwe varikudzimba dzavo to avoid unnecessary hate... munhu haatendi don't help expecting a thank you. Help because your heart wants to. The best thank you is from God... Sometimes its better to help and love from afar
Inini I will never allow my children to share a room with a visitor no matter uriani, kana pasina guest room munhu mu dining and I have my own reasons related to spirituality