My daughter came home with her grandchild.
Before I knew it, the house was set up according to my daughter and grandchild's pace, and even the furniture I'd cherished had been moved.
When I tried to say something, I got a harsh response, and I'm starting to feel exhausted from taking care of my grandchild.
This is a consultation from Ayaba-baa, a woman in her 50s, who is troubled by the question, "Should I continue living like this, or should I create some distance?"

She cherishes her daughter and grandchild, but also wants to protect her own time, energy, and lifestyle.
Happiness navigator Tama will discuss how to maintain a healthy distance between parents and children, sharing opinions from both parents and daughters in short videos.
We'll also talk about how to communicate your feelings without causing conflict, such as contacting them before they arrive, deciding when they'll leave, and tidying up furniture.

How do you communicate "what you can and can't do" with your family?
Please share your thoughts in the comments, within reasonable limits.
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▼Table of Contents
00:00 Opening
01:21 Introduction of the consultation
01:58 Ayabaa's consultation letter
02:40 Tama-sensei's answer
04:35 Introducing opinions from viewers
21:21 Tama-sensei's closing remarks
22:41 Ending

#Parent-child relationships #Grandparenting #Tama's Advice Corner