When Leah got into her marriage, she had skipped a major role in her life. The self-healing journey. So, she got into the marriage with illusions of what a marriage should look like. She became an alpha female who could not be advised or led towards the right direction. And so, she packed her bag and left with her two children.
So, why did she finally go back to her husband after two years?
What was the conversation like?
And why did she apologize to him and the entire family?
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When Leah got into her marriage, she had skipped a major role in her life. The self-healing journey. So, she got into the marriage with illusions of what a marriage should look like. She became an alpha female who could not be advised or led towards the right direction. And so, she packed her bag and left with her two children.
So, why did she finally go back to her husband after two years?
What was the conversation like?
And why did she apologize to him and the entire family?
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today’s episode of LNS, Rebuilding series
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Lynn, this is a unique case told by an intentional, beautiful soul for many to learn and review their life.
Disclaimer!!, my wife did exactly that albeit minus our kids and after two weeks, she realised her error of judgement. These things are in vogue in our society today but is never told. Leah is one of a kind.
Leah, allow me to commend you for that move and remind you that you are so beautiful and authentic. You have taught many women out there that marriage indeed works if both parties put their efforts, purpose and intention to it. Marriage is so good guys, but its success must come from you not the other party. Leah came to her realisation that she had something to give in her marriage, interrogated her conscience and God revealed to her that this was the man that He purposed to her. A marriage with God's blessings can't fold.
Guys, there is no pride or ego when it comes to marriage. Marriage brings in values and purpose then the rest falls into place. I also wish to remind us that the best and most successful marriage can manifest where and when both of you places your past aside and place your values to the table then agree on how, as a unit you can navigate and model life in the way you think best. What I am saying in simple terms is, outsiders will never help you build your marriage but destroy it. They weren't there when you met or when discussing and agreed on your trajectory. To that extent then, they are strangers to your marriage just as they are not part of your life journey or painful experiences. Leave 3rd parties out of your relationship and be nil or scanty in sharing anything about your partner and marriage in social media groups.
Leah's story in respect of her father, is indeed sad and unfortunate. Leah, sorry for the childhood trauma you endured but God has it all positioned for you to your destiny. It is well. Men, when a relationship has failed, bringing another woman to your matrimonial bed is a big NO. There are several ways you can approach or handle your relationship without causing unnecessary bitterness or subjecting your children to such experience that Leah and many more go through. With the advent of alternative means of resolving differences like counseling, church etc, you can do it guys. AIDS, STDs, Traumas you inflict on the innocent children like Leah, and the shame that you alone go through among men, all these is unwarranted.
It doesn't matter what anyone can say about women, but our mothers are awesome. Majority of women do a lot in terms of shaping humanity. Many women out there including my own mother are transformative to matters children welfare, albeit, away from public glare. Social media is exposing some stories of women power and how much they impact society at large. But the truth is, there are so many silent mothers like Leah's that have done wonders that never come to public gallery. We see other great women even here on Lynn's show.
As we celebrate international women's day on Friday 8, 2024, I request all of Lynn's loyal fans to join me in Celebrating Leah's mother, Lynn the icon herself, and all women in the world for being wonderful mothers to all of us. I postmously celebrate my own mother for single handedly taking me to university through Busaa brewing, my wife for giving me 4 great men and women and my two daughters for making me feel the proudest and fulfilled father in the world. Happy international women's day to all.