Someone said to me once: Either this person wants to be with you or they don't. Either you want me or you don't. If you want someone else, fine. It doesn't feel that easy, but it is that simple. Be strong in yourself, have confidence, don't compare yourself to others.

Love how the host just lets dr. P talk without interrupting! That's the respect he deserves! Love this

I want my jealous thoughts gone. Envy is tearing my life apart…I feel absolutely bound and suffocated… After suffering with them for years, I’ve had enough

You can be a slave, a tyrant or you can negotiate

“People will do and desire things they won’t talk about”— a fascinating quote

Be terrified of those that say they get bored easy, that spells DRAMA.
Run!

He's so freaking intelligent.

“You can be a slave or a tyrant, or you can negotiate. Those are your options.
And we default to slavery or tyranny, because that doesn’t take any cognitive effort”

-Jordan Peterson

"You are on the same team, that is the point." So well said. You should never think of your partner as competition or someone you own. They are you team player. You need to provide assists and congratulations because when they win the team wins. If they are cheating then it is a different story. Cheating is saying you want to be on the other team.

This talk is profound. Many people have shame of talking about porn and would not admit publicly they are watching it. It seems like a growing problem, I remember when it was first erotic magazines when we were kids, this moved to the triple x rated channels and internet pictures and videos later on. Porn gives false and very shallow gratification. The last words where Dr. Peterson mentions that "watching a sexual act where you are not involved says something about you" rang a bell. There are multiple causes of this to be possible to happen but if you are in that situation start taking care of yourself, do sports. Educate yourself. If you try changing all the small things about you that are under your control it is like magic how much your life can change. For people to see you as attractive and potential sexual partner you have to develop yourself so you have things to offer on the table. It is not easy. Or it seams it is not until you start doing it.

Love doesn't cost anything
Example: a smile when you're tired
A kind word of appreciation
A hug a supportive arm around your shoulder
Short love notes left on the fridge
Helping out with the housework
Going for a walk together even in the rain
Sharing an umbrella
Switching the phone off

I’m saving this video so I can reference it in the future.

Yes I agree with most of this. My views are pretty traditional and I believe the society's approach and view of sexuality harms people a lot and causes a great deal of unhappiness. I think sex (including emotional intimacy) should be a sacred and special thing between a couple, and that this helps the relationship survive and thrive long term

Amen to that "pornography is not especially helpful to anyone".  This is the truth!

I love listening to Jordan Peterson he's so intelligent I've honestly become like so callous and so indifferent to the world I'm just incapable of trusting other people but he has been helping me get my life on track so that I can focus on myself this man is truly a godsend to me I'm so glad that I discovered his stuff and I sincerely hope that everyone can appreciate how valuable this man is to the human race.

Sweet simple things
Good hygiene
Smelling good
Baby oil
Hugs and kisses
Making a simple meal for them
Flowers
Chocolate
Perfume
Fruit
Soft music
Coffee eg together
Popcorn
Massage away tension
A walk in the park together
Forgiving
Watching comedy,lol
Watching the sunset
Looking at the stars
Exploring new things
Experiencing new Memories
Remembering good memories
Singing to the other person even if you can't sing that makes it even better
Not waiting for the perfect time
Make the perfect time now
Love to live and live to love
Have boundaries
Respectful of each other
Read a book to the other one
Improve your surroundings
Declutter
Shower together
Have a fun day everyday

People that say their not jealous in the context of a relationship are either lying or aren't in love

Sex is powerful and often made a joke when in reality it changes lives and can devastate hearts and minds

This dude has inadvertently saved so many peoples lives because of these videos