Why prolong your trauma by staying with a cheater?

This woman is diabolical… “I don’t see a future with you” after making him move states with you and have two children together?!

Why the f would you put yourself in that situation by having a kid with a cheater who never wanted to commit to your a$$

These stories is the life example of the motto " you deserve what you tolerate"

It's hard to have sympathy for either of these OPs...

You NEVER confront a cheating SO before doing a thorough investigation, preferably by a professional.

As soon as he saw the texts he should have went to a Divorce Lawyer to weigh his options, then to a Private Investigator to find out the truth and get evidence for the lawyer. Knowledge is power

Confronting them immediately might feel good in the moment, but it just gives them a chance to lie and cover their tracks. Everytime you confront with limmited info you're essentially training them to be a better liar/cheater.

Why deal with years of trickle-truth, confusion, and heartbreak? It just prolongs the mental and emotional torture.

You know in the first story, she was not going to leave until she had the sure thing.

That last story pissed me off. What a gutless coward, I hate myself but I still can't imagine having this little self respect.

2nd story: Those two are a pair.  Bob couldn’t treat her bad enough for her to lose interest in him.  And, she couldn’t treat OP bad enough for him to lose interest in her.

Op 2 is a great example of low self esteem because on paper he was the catch and he never seemed to realize it 😂

Second OP started off naive, then became irrational in his expectations of someone who had already showed him more than once who she was. Bob wasn’t even an upgrade and could possibly be the biological father of their kids. Hopefully he learns self-advocacy.

Honestly still being heartbroken after the THIRD TIME she lies about breaking it off with her affair partner is where I reach my limit of sympathy. OP is just doing this to himself at this point, I don’t even know if I can finish the story.

Just to be clear; she literally halted the marriage counselling to ‘work on herself’ and then immediately got back with her boyfriend. Continuing to see him after multiple instances of being caught and promising OP that it’s over, and continuing to gaslight him every proceeding time she is caught. At this point if she isn’t alone it’s the fault of the people with her. She couldn’t make her actions and intentions more obvious.

She knows what she wants, NOT her husband.

He really thinks its noble for him to comfort her once Bob breaks her heart??

These people really have zero self respect.

These type of stories really piss me off. How can a person have negative self respect for self.

The 2nd OP is insane.

18:00 personally wouldn’t reconcile w a cheater but tbh i think this guy from the comment actually took accountability and got himself right 👏🏻

This is like a simps ultimate fantasy

He should have already told the kids the truth and reported their affair and his insider info to the company. Alot of OPs weakness and not enforcing his territory contributed to this.