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How Can I Fully Trust My Wife After Her Affair?

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How Can I Fully Trust My Wife After Her Affair?

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20 Comments

@shelbsss0 1 year ago (edited)

....2 years? 2 years? And an emotional relationship prior? Bruh. Run.

@brandieschmitt8974 1 year ago

Brother, I am somebody who went through almost the IDENTICAL thing you’re going through.
I don’t know you, and I love you deeply enough to say this- get into therapy and find out what attachment wound is keeping you with that woman. Your body is giving you clear indications this relationship is done, and although you say you trust her, stop lying to yourself because your body doesn’t feel safe.

I wish I would have left earlier so my healing could have started after the discovery of the affair.

@BabeRossi 1 year ago

He gave her the gift of reconciliation after the first emotional affair, she didn’t change and then took it to the level of physical affair. It’s time to divorce.

@Iacon40k 1 year ago

NEVER in life would I trust or tolerate my wife after an affair. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect, and getting rid of her is the ultimate sign of respect for yourself

@brianm6924 1 year ago

Trust her to do it again ohhh😂

@annsheridan12 1 year ago

“I want a break” the appropriate answer is “I am divorcing you”

@NigerianBeautyQueen 1 year ago (edited)

She’s trying to get him to divorce her but he’s not picking up the clue. No woman who loves and respects you cheats right before your anniversary day. She’s literally doing everything except bring the guy home to your bed to get you to get the point.

The funny thing is…once he leaves her, she’ll try everything to get him back including saying she’s all in.

@carnivoreRon 1 year ago (edited)

An affair???? Just after he married her???? Run!!!!!! She neither loves nor respects you.

@crazycatlady1995 1 year ago

"our marriage has never been better" bro why are you call then?

@Eddie45658 1 year ago

You can Never fully trust again, it'll never be 100% the same again.

@shastadad-1999 1 year ago

Simping 101- Class is in session

@jacobrod976 1 year ago

“Our marriage is better than ever” -Dr.John Delony caller. Sure pal

@brittneydavis8662 1 year ago (edited)

As a married woman, don’t gaslight yourself dude. If we really love someone we don’t do these things to you. Especially in this early stage of marriage. She doesn’t love you or like you. I never tell anyone to leave but think long and hard about if this is what you should do. There are women that will love you and not betray you in that magnitude.

@DRG1244 1 year ago

I will never understand people who give cheaters a second chance. Happened to me once, instantly cut off. Despite her best attempts, haven't talked to her since the day I told her I knew. Got my stuff, left, never looked back. Best decision ever.

@lorirogers9304 1 year ago

She didn’t have a break. She had a plan of deceit.

@Lemonysnicketwantstopickit 1 year ago

Leave brother. It'll hurt, but she doesn't want you

@IMOO1896 1 year ago

You missed this one John, he knows deep inside he can’t trust her, she will repeat history.

@thescramble4309 1 year ago

John tell him the truth . Please don’t let him go through anymore of this .

@SanjayPatel-es6ie 1 year ago

I read You Know Everything by Daemon J. O. on Amazon and it hit me that I’ve been using books as an excuse to not do anything. Closed it halfway through and forced myself to talk to a random person at a gas station. Was shaking at first but by the end we were laughing about the dumbest thing. That one move felt better than months of “studying.”

@dbealby 1 year ago

brother if you come to these comments, I hope you see what 99% of us think. Time to start over. Too long to live to try fixing something that will never be forgotten about.