I just cut all my hair off (my preference). I don’t give AF what men prefer. If I like it, I LOVE IT!

As a woman your main concern shouldn’t ever be how a man feels about your hair. Or his feelings about your body at all!

They love to gaslight🙂‍↔️ They love 4c hair on anyone but a Black woman.

I’m sorry it’s 2026 do we still care what these men think 😆

If a woman has brown to dark skin and 4c hair, black men view them as less valuable.  Black men view lighter skin, curly or straight hair women as more valuable then the above.  These are facts.

Some men will say they like natural women with no weave and make up but would cheat with women with 30 inch weave lashes etc.

They have the same hair so all it means is they don’t like their own hair

The day I care about black men or any man's opinion is a bad day. Praying for any woman who does.

I think this is more of an online issue. I have mostly type 4b hair and I literally get compliments from black men every time I’m out in public. Not to mention my black husband who loves my natural hair.

They DONT LIKE natural hair. Only when it’s straight. Or blonde. When they see a natural girl they look past her. Proudly natural ! Wear it curly and get IGNORED. But my friend with a weave gets mad attention. DONT CARE. I’d rather be loved by ME than hated by YOU!😊

What's funny about this when I  wear my 4c natural out I get compliments and stopped by black  men more 🤷🏾‍♀️ Hispanic men approach me when I wear weave lol

I love my hair and don’t care what men think.

They love the  white   master hair.. Slavery mess up alot of generations man and woman

Lol ! He's a black but don"t know what 4 c hair is ! 😂😂😂

Yes. Amen to this truth!! When black men say they want or love a woman with REAL NATURAL hair...they ARE NOT referring to real 4c 3 c or whatever black women hair.  They are referring to Hispanics,  Indians or mixed women hair not our afrocentric hair and they know it.

I love 4c hair on black women though short or long, looks good to me

In my experience, BM like the hair texture normally found on biracial women. Think Alicia Keys and Tracee Ellis Ross. The hair on the kinkier end of the spectrum, not so much. What I've also noticed is that if you have 4A-4C natural hair, they will only give you a pass if it's long... 🤷🏽‍♀️ Wear your hair how you want bw. You'll never be able to make everyone happy so do what you want.

Last person I was with (a black man) preferred me with my 4c hair out of all the hairstyles I had, I feel bad for women doubt or haven't experienced true love because those type of men are definitely out there! You gotta learn to love yourself first tho

Tbh I don’t really care what the general population of men think about my hair. As long as my man likes it then no other guy’s opinion matters.😅

And a lot of men aren’t really knowledgable about hair terminology 🤣they just know what they like and don’t like lol

You mentioned that you can’t have “fine hair and 4c hair” I think you meant like tight curly hair and loose curly hair. Because you can definitely have fine hair strands and the curls be 4c. And just to throw you for another loop you can have different textures in you hair as well 😂

God made our hair very detailed and unique. ❤

Just my 2 cents😊. Great video!

First time here. You covered this topic frankly and respectfully. Much appreciated. Stay safe everyone 😊❤