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Psychopath Explains how he Manipulates & Controls Women | Lewis Raymond Taylor

Lisa Bilyeu

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You ever wonder what’s really going on when someone seems “too good to be true”, or why you can sense danger even when you can’t explain why? Are you stuck loving someone who just can’t love you back… and blaming yourself for not being “enough” to change them?

This episode is unfiltered, raw, and unlike anything we’ve ever done. I’m sitting down with Lewis Raymond Taylor, who openly shares his story of being diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder (psychopathy), surviving trauma, and rebuilding a life on the other side. This is not about excusing red flags, this is about naming them, understanding them, and reclaiming your power no matter what.

If you love, have loved, or fear loving the wrong person…homie, this is your episode.

Here’s exactly what we dive into:
What love bombing really is—and why some people do it on purpose while others don’t even realize it’s happening
Signs you’re being manipulated (and why logic, not emotion, may be the only way out)
The warning signs in high-risk relationships and the myth of “fixing” someone with more love
How psychopathic traits can destroy everything, or be transformed into surprising strengths
Chapters

[00:03:27] Love Bombing, Emotional Withdrawal, & Why the Switch Flips
[00:06:01] Obsession, First Love, and the Early Roots of Dysfunction
[00:10:08] Explosive Rage, Trauma, and Blackout Moments
[00:13:25] How Manipulation & Self-Harm Get Used as Weapons
[00:18:00] Breaking the Rules: Violence, Minimization & Not Learning from Consequences
[00:25:41] The Futility of Reasoning with an Unempathetic Partner
[00:29:28] Superficial Charm, Masking, and Calculated Apologies
[00:39:36] No Guilt, No Remorse: Cognitive Empathy Explained
[00:44:16] Why You Cannot “Fix” Him Unless He Knows There’s a Problem
[00:46:42] How to Communicate With (or Leave) Someone Who Can’t Feel for You
[01:01:06] Learning to Mask, Energy Management, and Relationships That Work
[01:14:51] Transmuted Psychopathy: Turning a Diagnosis Into a Strength

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20 Comments

@Victorious444 3 months ago

The key thing to remember while watching this is that psychopaths are pathological liars. 🤥

@PacificNWGrl 3 months ago

If anyone has ever had an actual “personal” relationship with a sociopath or psychopath you will know they are a vacuum. They take everything from you like a succubus and then when they have extracted everything from you, they will leave or you will leave. And they will show zero remorse.

@fiction589 3 months ago

I think he is just the regular narcissist trying to be more special, not a true psychopath with impaired amygdala functioning. He may be one, but not too high on the scale (psychopathy is a spectrum). This dude is selling us an act

@michellechristina8770 3 months ago

One of the things that keep you hooked is thinking you need to explain why you feel hurt about something. Explaining to a narcissist or psychopath will only highlight how they can hurt you.

@Pepperfam 3 months ago

What’s so terryfying about psychopaths is that all they do is manipulate everyone and have this nice guy mask. The most charming nice people are usually evil.

@sheilamc3420 3 months ago

"I JUST HIT HIM ONCE"

My Ex Husband told my Mom that "I just hit her twice. What's the big deal?" That's what he said when I ran away and left him for good.

It was the Hardest AND the Best thing I've ever done. Praise God, I am free now. Yes, I married a true psychopath...and I just thought he was cute, charming and very successful. Protective. Fun. And it turned out he was dangerous. I had to run away and start over with nothing, BUT I did it. Praise God ♥️

@tnmaxim5109 3 months ago

I was married to one. 15 years later I'm still having nightmares...

@TheLillipuss 3 months ago

LISAAAAA, please have another interview with a psychopath alongside a psychiatrist so you can both delve deep

@AingealErrington 3 months ago

Hes actually lying through his teeth, his hand gestures have given him away, hes actually trying to convince himself hes a psychopath.

@ozlennsenn 3 months ago

Not every narcissist is a psychopath, but every psychopath is a narcissist.!! a very repulsive man, you can easily sense it. ..

@EastCoastCooler 3 months ago

The fact that a lot of people actually want to be psychopaths nowadays shows just how fucked up our society is! I think it's the best time in human history to thrive as a psychopath!! Everyone is fake and tries to present as perfect and acting like they care. In reality, a lot of people nowadays are extremely selfish and would walk over you in the street. Psychopaths are having a field day right now!

@ohionative3131 3 months ago

If he is a psychopath, he will never display it publicly unless he is under the influence (drinking or drugs) and he loses some level of control.

@LFocusUP 3 months ago

I feel like he’s a narcissist who realized that people find psychopaths much more interesting.

@TraTiel1 2 months ago

He's not a psychopath. He's simply suppressed his emotions to an extreme level, and developed an inability to feel them.

@kelsi604 3 months ago

ive suspected my mom of being a psychopath for a bit of time but hearing lewis's thought processes/logic/reasoning be the EXACT same as my mother's is incredibly validating. i dont think she will ever acknowledge or do anything about it tho, she hasnt really faced many consequences that would force her to, unfortunately

@jzanke9748 3 months ago

Psychopaths don’t “kill for the tribe.” It’s always all about themselves. They’re not needed for that. People would naturally protect what they love. It was interesting watching hing him displaying his sense of grandiosity, trying to manipulate her and us and everything he was able to get away with in the show.

@josammonsdamnatodolls3366 3 months ago

That’s not empathy, that’s sympathy. Empathy means you can feel other people’s emotions

@erikahyman8611 3 months ago

I dated someone who love bombed me, moved in, turned my roommates against. He was planning my demise the whole time. Ladies RUN! I was out of there in 6 months. Red flags galore. Get support from your family & get out asap! I never knew these people were amongst us.

@Krystaahh 7 days ago

It’s truly crazy how much of a difference love makes in a child’s life… and on the rest of their life 💔

@gamelion3657 3 months ago

My psychopath was sexually abused as a child too, and became a constant sex seeker after that. Unfortunately it turned him into a sex predator. He has many victims. Sick stuff.