why is the husband confused about everything he gave all his paycheck to his mother

She put her in laws in line professionally not making ridiculous scenes. And the husband! What’s he doing???

As a woman in that culture, I don’t see any advantage in getting a husband or living with a man.  Financial abuse.

Is it common in every country to burdened wife/DIL with all the money and work?

isn’t it husband’s responsibility to taking care of wife and child?

She should have just divorced

I like this movie, I hope in the future more movies can explore the concepts and drama in this one.  In most of these shows, when the wife decides to leave, she sues for all the money she put in back. And I find it weird, I know she overpaid but she acts like she should not have to pay rent, property fees, or any other bills for that period. All the gift money and extras she chose to give she come back to her too.  And then a judge actually gives it to her, even if the husband in the show did not rob marital assets. In this story it was not about setting them up to have a big bang before divorce. It wasn't that I am hurt and not divorcing and taking the kid.  It is about you think this, let reality tell the story.  And I like the husband part in the movie, although I am still confused if in China men are married and give their checks to their mother with no instructions on how they have to pay something in the home.

4 years is to long to clear up that nonsense BUT I did like the story it was cute

I'm confused as to  how the MIL did not know the female lead was paying all the bills. She received her son's entire paycheck and spent it all on her daughter and husband. The FIL spent all his own retirement pay. How is it possible for the MIL to not know the only money left for the female lead to use was her own paycheck? Make it make sense.

At least the old man changed. Happy ending! Thanks for the upload! 😊❤

And what about the husband salary 😢

Los suegros ni el marido aportan nada a los gastos familiares, mientras la madre da la mayoría del dinero a la hija mayor, una caradura.

This can considered a growth realisation family drama.
Not every couple who has financial disputes need to go through divorce. This is family. And Yes, She paid all money. But she choose to pay. She didn't want to argue over finances... She can afford to pay. So, she pays.. She wanted a peaceful home. Most families are like that. After having children... They realized that .. arguments drama.. is just emotionally disturbing... Peace is better.

When FL entered the family. Motherinlaw. Bossed her around... Not letting her into family financial matters.
As Mother in law knows if FL knew about her sending money to daughter and her husband. She might be dissatisfied and argue over... So, she didn't let FL knew about that. And that's... All.. over 4 years.. no arguments, a son , a happy home. No mistress.. no demanding of money to pay for relatives. Not shoving their faces infront of her demanding she should pay just bcoz she married.(In most drama... Everyone knew about FL money, they are greedy and wanted to squeeze her dry. Let her do all housework and others.. wanted obedient, free maid, pay for their things daughterinlaw). This drama,
Fatherinlaw is factory worker who retired with 6000+ pension... And motherinlaw has 2000+ pension. While son has around 8000+ salary.
1500 goes to sisterinlaw... And sometimes more miscellaneous money demanded by sisterinlaw 1000 goes around some items..bought by motherinlaw.. into home. (Can be special groceries or items). Remaining money all goes to fatherinlaw spending...
FL mentioned how fatherinlaw spends..
And FL never revealed she is paying all payments in household.
So, Fatherinlaw who is spending lavishly... And has the tendency to show off all the time... Only saw that his daughter-in-law cooks and helps in household... And eats lavish foods.. and doesn't send money(visible) ... While son gives most of his salary to his mother.
So Fatherinlaw thought FL never contributed. So, he bought out 50-50.
And thus later realized... The actual contributer over the household in all 4 years is FL. He realized his mistake..
And tried to make up for it.
To say who's fault. It's not exactly fault. It's just having no clarity

What kind of husband don’t know what his wife paying

If they are calculating the father in-laws pension and the mother in-laws own, where is the husband's money

😂😂😂 fil 6800 son 8000 makes up to what dil is paid 😂😂 and fil wanted to split payments 😂😂😂 I bet she now wishes that she found out how they were before marriage

The husband is the problem..... FL is so kind.

Thank you

Big thing is what is MIL doing with sons salary and tens of thousands per month ? Where is it ? Why use pension or only DIL ?

Yes she's right

Rectification : "le beau-père qui joue les machos..."