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What to Expect After Going 'No-Contact' - Day 4

Kris Reece

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Day 4: When You Go 'No-Contact', Others May React This Way
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@TYGZus777 3 years ago

I can accept the narcissistic people's behavior after enforcing my boundaries. However, I am completely flabbergasted at everyone else's support of them. It is amazing how physically attractive, charismatic people can get away with such horrific behaviors.

@KenishaCable 3 years ago

"A title doesn’t give someone permission to mistreat you." Yes!! Thank you!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@KleeKaiPuppies4sale 3 years ago

Going no contact is def not easy. Been a year plus of zero contact w him and anyone he was associated w. It’s way better than being in hell w all their sick ways. Much love sent to anyone dealing w a narc or narcs. They’re awful but you can prevail and you should.
I bought a small farm, got a puppy, started gardening and got back into cooking.
You deserve lots of love❤

@cmsbeth 3 years ago

No contact is a boundary that you set to protect yourself from further abuse. It is not punishment. It is a safe haven. It is forever. 😢

@alfredondie4424 2 years ago

I am scared, yet I trust the Lord for protection. I am on 7 days of cut off. There has already been an attempt to smear me. Oh Lord prepares me for this. Let your grace be sufficient for me in this season.

@addadaisy 2 years ago

I struggled for such a long time in my family. However, God is great and finally revealed this week that I am the scapegoat in the family scapegoat abuse. Once I understood this, everything changed. I found my inner strength. I am struggling with readjusting to a life without this family I grew up with but I have no regrets. I am just grateful to God for His mercy and grace. I still have a broken heart but I can see the truth and accept it as it is. I choose to turn my back on this family but I also remember they are only the earthly family and not the spiritual family that God has. Thank you.

@apconnections9691 3 years ago

My narc shredded my heart and brains through manipulation and hoovering. I felt I had no where to turn. So many wrong decisions I made trying to get away from the cleverly laid snares. Now, my Helper, given to me from Christ, teaches me everyday how, when, where, and why drawing boundaries is essential in my life going forward.
Bitterness will NOT take root ever! Thank you for your prayer.

@dr.bunnywilson8321 3 years ago

Been enduring narcs ALL my life!!!75 years young not giving up YET....as long as God is with me.... he's already done ALL THAT!!!!!

@charlottebruce979 3 years ago

I went no contact and blocked him from everything, so I got no back lash whatsoever. All I got was peace and quiet, and I don't care what he's thinking or saying or doing because I don't care.

@baddriversofrva 3 years ago

Thank you for this point. I went NC with my mom almost two years ago for continually testing my boundaries, giving unsolicited advice, and gaslighting, to name a few. I forgive her and respect her from afar. Cutting off her narc supply and codependency from me, her only child, gave me freedom.

@billevans4470 3 years ago

Day one, time to unravel this unholy mess. Please pray for me to stay strong and move forward.

@beccavision933 3 years ago (edited)

My Narcissistic sister and elderly mother have become unbearable. Last straw for me was my mother physically assaulted me and left a 3 inch bruise on my arm. I am now in no contact for a month. My Mom posted on facebook a meme about all a mother wants is love from her children. She is now telling people I abandoned her. (mind you I have been a loving giving daughter to her my whole life, especially the past 6 years moved to live near her to take care of her).This woman is mommy dearest times 10 and my sister encourages her. No contact so far has been a relief and in my 60s realized I was abused my whole life but didnt know it. Thank you for validating that I am doing the right thing.

@mirnacudiczgela1963 2 years ago

I was accused of being vindictive because I "abandoned my mother while she is old and sick", only to later find out she went to Rome. As far as I know sick people cannot travel.

@deborah.hdowner226 3 years ago

I am praying against the bitterness right now.

@theflowerangel5724 3 years ago

Also, remember, the narcissist will backstab and talk badly about you behind your back.

@chautran2588 3 years ago

Their grandiose mind never see anything wrong with them. It's always your fault. Period.

@torshiaseales5061 3 years ago (edited)

So true. In my case my toxic partner called all my friends in a failed smear campaign. He called MY closest friends - calling 2 of them up to 20 times in one day! Lucky for me, MY friends put him in his place!!!

@srl8036 3 years ago

This is EXCELLENT from a Christian Perspective. Powerful content! So rich!

@MegaSinglechick 3 years ago

My mother says sorry all the time, but it's just a word and her behaviour always goes right back to how she's always been. They are expert manipulators and the older they get, the worse they get.